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    Certified Sausage Smoker Elfboy's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady X View Post
    like what? what in there was sx like that you're asking about?
    were you talking to me?

    - lots of cuddling
    - lots of romantic/sensual activities
    - lots of affection
    it's not a long list, but these three things cover a lot of activities. mostly I just want someone I can shower with affection and who has a generally sensual, pleasant and inviting atmosphere about them. most of the sensuality outside of snuggling/spending time together is more implicit, like the way we talk to each other. there aren't a lot of outwardly sexual expectations that say an Sx/So or So/Sx might have
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    were you talking to me?

    - lots of cuddling
    - lots of romantic/sensual activities
    - lots of affection
    it's not a long list, but these three things cover a lot of activities. mostly I just want someone I can shower with affection and who has a generally sensual, pleasant and inviting atmosphere about them. most of the sensuality outside of snuggling/spending time together is more implicit, like the way we talk to each other. there aren't a lot of outwardly sexual expectations that say an Sx/So or So/Sx might have
    no...i was asking the person that asked you if all sx people were like that. it confused me because i didn't see anything that stood out as different than i assumed most people do in romantic relationships.
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    Most important to me: mutual acceptance and understanding, sharing insights, authenticity, words of affirmation
    Least important: physical touch, gifts

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    Secret Sex Freak Hazashin's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by RevlisZero View Post
    Least important: physical touch, gifts
    Huh?!? That's mind-boggling to me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady X View Post
    no...i was asking the person that asked you if all sx people were like that. it confused me because i didn't see anything that stood out as different than i assumed most people do in romantic relationships.
    OH! *facepalm*

    I thought he just meant in general. I just jumped right to his post without even bothering to read what the rest of the thread was about. I got ahead of myself.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazashin View Post
    Huh?!? That's mind-boggling to me.
    Lol, yeah, I guess that's 'cause I'm Sx last.

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    4w5, my guess is sx, then what... dunno

    Physical touch
    Quality time
    Words of affirmation
    Gifts- make me a mix or I'll make you one, a sure sign of being smitten, but other gifts, not personal ones, pretty much indifferent to.
    Acts of service (receive, not give- like clean or grocery shop cause I hate it; I'm terrible at doing this for people. I'm not good at giving in this way.)

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    I'm an sx and top two which are much higher than the rest and close together in ranking are:
    - Words of affirmation
    - Physical touch

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    4w5 so/sp

    Prefer to give: Quality time, physical touch
    Prefer to receive: Quality time, words of affirmation
    4w5 so/sp - 5w4 so/sx - 9w1 sp/so
    Fi > Ne > Ni > Fe > Si > Ti > Se > Te
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    4w3 so/sx

    Prefer to give: Words of affirmation, physical touch
    Prefer to receive: Quality time, words of affirmation
    Yet I know, if I stepped aside
    Released the controls, you would open my eyes
    That somehow, all of this mess
    Is just my attempt to know the worth of my life
    .

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