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    Quote Originally Posted by bologna View Post
    1. Quality time
    2. Physical touch
    3. Words of affirmation
    4. Acts of service
    5. Gifts
    I've got more explanation in the quoted post


    6w5 sp/sx maybe. "Give me my freakin' alone time once in a while" should be a love language as well

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    I am definitely sp-dom, and have been going under the assumption that I'm sp/so. But I'm not positive about the second.

    Quality Time & Physical Touch are my top two, with Words of Affirmation a close 3rd.

    Like others have mentioned, it's not like I don't appreciate Acts of Service and Gifts - and can recognize that those things can be acts of love. But Quality Time and Physical Touch are things that I don't think I could do without - the absence of them would make me question the presence of Love. And I guess that's why they're my primaries. They are also how I show love, although it really depends on which of those, as well as words of affirmation, I use in a given moment/situation.
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    4w5 sp/sx

    quality time - I like a lot of time alone, so my time is valuable...if I give it to you readily, then that's significant.
    physical touch - easier & preferable to words as far as expressing myself, although words are good to hear. I'm also awkward with people I don't know & may avoid touching them, so touch is a significant indicator of my feelings also.
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    6w7 sp/sx

    1. Physical touch
    2. Quality time
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    3. Acts of service
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    4. Words of affirmation

    Give and receive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Z Buck McFate View Post
    As for me, 5w4 sp/sx, I have a hard time giving a preference for love language because it’s so situational to me, and changes a lot according to who I’m dealing with.
    Hey that's what I was going to say! I think I'm also sp/sx, although I could be sp/so (6w5).

    All 5 are important to me, well maybe not the gifts one, but I've never had a bf who did random little gifts and that does sound kinda awesome in theory. Well, who doesn't like gifts, really? I wouldn't like frequent expensive ones, though.

    1 - touch (give and receive)
    2 - quality time (giving and receiving are the same thing, I guess)
    3 - words (mostly receiving)
    4 - acts of service (mostly receiving)
    5 - gifts (mostly receiving)

    Essentially numbers 1 and 2 are critical and 3 is important every so often, the others are nice but not necessary for happiness.

    My guess would be that touch would be high on the priority list for Sx and words would be high for an So. Not sure about any other trends, or what Sp would prefer.
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    7w8 (or 8) Sp/Sx

    prefer to give
    - affection
    - protection (whenever they need it)
    - encouragement
    - lots of snuggling

    prefer to receive
    - affection
    - lots of snuggling
    - acceptance
    - good conversation
    - other than that, I am not a very needy person as long as I don't have a lot of expectation placed on me (there is no way in hell I will ever date a type 2)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    7w8 (or 8) Sp/Sx

    prefer to give
    - affection
    - protection (whenever they need it)
    - encouragement
    - lots of snuggling

    prefer to receive
    - affection
    - lots of snuggling
    - acceptance
    - good conversation
    - other than that, I am not a very needy person as long as I don't have a lot of expectation placed on me (there is no way in hell I will ever date a type 2)
    Are all Sx or Sx-second types like that? Or just that particular subtype?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazashin View Post
    Are all Sx or Sx-second types like that? Or just that particular subtype?
    I think my criteria for a relationship is pretty standard for an Sp/Sx. I would assume for an So/Sx or Sx/So there would be some different criteria in there and probably more social involvement and/or expectations, but I wouldn't know. Sp/Sx want a relationship that is sensual, romantic and has lots of time for quality 1-1 time, but they also like relationships that are more low maintenance. for instance, being Social last, they just aren't into the kinds of roles, obligations and social rituals that So types are more found of.
    Edit: in particular, Sp/Sx varies from the norm as to:
    - acts of service: they're nice, but expecting them is not. we would rather take them as they come and give them as we feel like it. I don't expect my partner to do anything for me and want a partner that doesn't expect this of me. with the exception of sex of course. satisfying your partner is a responsibility of both parties involved.
    - gifts: I really don't freakin care about this one. gifts are overrated. I'll probably give a decent amount of gifts, but I'm not expecting any (though they will be appreciated). if I really want something, I'll go out and buy it
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    like what? what in there was sx like that you're asking about?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady X View Post
    like what? what in there was sx like that you're asking about?
    Wait, who are you referring to?
    MBTI: INFP
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    Fi > Ne > Ti > Fe > Se > Si > Te > Ni

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