Multiple Enneagram Subtypes/Instincts Sp/Sx or Sx/Sp

[Elfboy]

I've been starting to doubt if I'm Self Preservation. Perhaps I'm a Sexual variant

Self Preservation
- I'm all about getting money
- I don't like most people at all
- I place my own needs before others 98% of the time
- I'm focused on building my finances before pursuing a relationship
- I think self sacrificing people are stupid
- I would never die for a cause
- I'm very focused on "building my house": acquiring wealth and value, learning survival skills, improving my living conditions
- I need to be comfortable or I am very unhappy
- I care more about things and ideas that people. if I had to make the choice, a lonely rich man is much better off than a poor man with a lot of friends
- gaining independence in all forms is top priority before all else

Sexual
- WAY more affectionate than most 8s
- always related to she wolves, tigresses and other ferocious animal mothers even though I'm a guy
- prefer dating guys who are 1-3 years younger that sort of need a guide to take care of them
- if you mess with someone I love...you will die
- enjoy forplay, romance and intimate connection just as much as sex
- love small animals and children (no, not in that way)
- fall very naturally into the older brother role.
- enjoy snuggling
- relate a lot to most sexual 8s I've met
- I don't like to admit it, but sometimes I get lonely and wish someone would hug me
- if I ever have kids, I'm making sure to get their needs met before my own (but this is the only instance in which I would do so)

 

[Savage Idealist]

Wow, sounds like your fairly close on the two, you may want to check out this site, it gives descriptions of the enneagram + wings and the varients that go along with them http://theenneagram.blogspot.com/

Originally posted by Elfboy
love small animals and children (no, not in that way)

Pedophile! *throws rocks*

I don't like to admit it, but sometimes I get lonely and wish someone would hug me

Same here dude