I'm not sure if this topic has been made before but I'm testing out my luck anyway. :p
I can grasp the concept of merging with nature, music, career, idea, etc. but I don't really understand how exactly one merges with another. I'm trying to figure out whether I'm sx/sp or sp/sx. I'm very sure I'm one of the two but I don't really relate to the concept of merging with another person. I mean, I love to have a deep and interesting conversation with a person to know more about them, but I don't think I've ever felt like I'm "one" with them. And for the record, I've never been in love or a relationship so I wonder if that has to do with anything.
So, my questions are
Does merging only apply to sexual attraction or just people in general?
How do Sx know when they merge with someone?
What does it feel like to merge with someone?
How often does that usually happen?
EDIT: Also, what is your instinctual variant?
I wonder if Sx first would more likely to experience this merging of people than Sx second.