How important do you think similarity in instinctual variants is in a (short term and long term) relationship, and for what reasons?
I'm currently talking to a person who I am quite sure has the same variants as me, in the same order. I was "drawn" to this person, for a reason I couldn't really explain. I didn't think much of it at first. I let it be, then didn't contemplate it. Then we started talking again shortly after, and wow. The balance of energy is just.. really like nothing i've experienced. Obviously there are other things which appear to make us compatible, but i'm mainly talking about the interplay of energy here. We're both aware of each others boundaries, yet in this short period of time we've been talking, we're willing (i.e. we want it) to be pierced by each other and probed. It feels like a fulfilling experience, rather than something that drains my energy (being introverted). He's intelligent too, so that helps. Definitely feels good but I think we're both aware of the possibility it might combust, so we don't want to go in too hard and fast.
Anyone want to guess what you think our variants are for fun? :P (kind of obvious really) anyone experienced the same thing in regards to short term/long term relationships?