But I'm also not one for turning my back on others if they ask for my help. I admit that it's something you can easily take advantage of, other people's emotional vulnerability..but it's something I find despicable anyhow.
Though I won't deny that it's a thrill and an egoboost to do this stuff, it's not why I do it. I do it coz I care. And, when I am able to help, I feel the genuine pride that any person who is succesful at their mission feels. I'm not going to appologize for that, and I do very much enjoy that guilt-free, but try to never do that at the expense of that person.
Anycase, maybe a sx-dom Fe-user would be better suited at mulling over this issue with you