I think people are getting a bit confused...
Exactly. SXs are natural therapists.Originally Posted by Jennifer
Why does the fact that I'm more interested in who you are rather than the colour of your nail-polish or what you had for breakfast make me some kind of parasite?
It can only conceivably be a negative thing if I plan to use it in a way that might hurt you. Or if I am crass and insensitive when you share something personal and make yourself vulnerable. If the connection is misused to exploit others for personal gain or ego gratification, that's an unhealthy/amoral SX, not a typical one. I like to push and test boundaries and I delight in being inappropriate, but I don't impose myself on people. Ick. If they are resistant I quickly lose interest.
Introversion probably tempers the aggression of the SX drive.