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    Quote Originally Posted by The Ü View Post
    It's probably an attempt to make me feel better.
    Stop putting yourself down. Learn to accept a compliment with grace. Putting yourself down isn't typically the best idea when trying to present yourself to others (and it's also not good for your own self-esteem). If you don't respect yourself, no one else will.

    People are trying to tell you that you're decent looking, and someone even says they like the "real" you, and you just keep saying "no no no." It's kind of sad.

    But seriously, my life is pretty boring and routine. I don't do many interesting things all the time.
    Maybe you think you're boring because you're you. A woman who really likes you will like spending time with you, talking to you, whatever. Talk about your ideas and interests if you don't "do" much.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Ü View Post
    It's probably an attempt to make me feel better.
    That is completely untrue to how prpl operates. Can you imagine her bullshitting anyone like that?? @prplchknz, vouch for me!

    Also, the majority of people don't act like that -- because the majority of people are too self-involved to focus all of their energy on collectively fooling one person. The only time I could think of that happening would be "The Truman Show" -- and that scenario is statistically unlikely!
    But seriously, my life is pretty boring and routine. I don't do many interesting things all the time.
    Doesn't matter! I think it's safe to say that if you're being yourself, and you're putting yourself out there, then your chances at finding a girl who likes you are much higher. And I think @Halla74 has said, either on this thread or another thread, that if a girl starts dating you with the assumption that you are someone different, then things won't be pretty when she finds out that you were essentially fooling her the entire time. (Only he phrased it significantly better than I did!)

    Remember -- healthy relationships are based on honesty.
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    Quote Originally Posted by The Ü View Post
    I don't think showing off my "real self" is such a good idea. People will think I'm insufferably boring.
    What is "boring"? IXTJs seem to give off the strong silent type vibe with the added bonus of stability and unexpected witty remarks. I think that would be quite attractive to many folks. Playing it up theatrically can be contrived and "boring".

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glycerine View Post
    IXTJs seem to give off the strong silent type vibe with the added bonus of stability and unexpected witty remarks. I think that would be quite attractive to many folks. .
    This!

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Ü View Post
    It's probably an attempt to make me feel better.

    But seriously, my life is pretty boring and routine. I don't do many interesting things all the time.
    These negative thoughts are a real downer. Have you tried inspiring yourself through positive affirmations?

    When your heart cries, love you for you.

    We need a support group up in here. *looks around* Er, guess I'm standing in it. I'm late to the party!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nerd Girl View Post
    These negative thoughts are a real downer. Have you tried inspiring yourself through positive affirmations?

    When your heart cries, love you for you.

    We need a support group up in here. *looks around* Er, guess I'm standing in it. I'm late to the party!
    I do not know what you just said...

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Ü View Post
    I do not know what you just said...
    That's because it was positively dripping with Fe.

    Warm and cuddly Fe.

    Look to me and Marm if you want Fi to balance that out!
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    Quote Originally Posted by EJCC View Post
    That's because it was positively dripping with Fe.

    Warm and cuddly Fe.

    Look to me and Marm if you want Fi to balance that out!
    Is it time for his beating?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marmie Dearest View Post
    Is it time for his beating?
    That would be counterproductive.

    Honesty is the best medicine!

    Edit: I'm sorry if I've been coming across as kind of a bitch on this thread. I haven't filtered my Te much here, just because unfiltered Te is the most useful tool I have, in getting a point across as clearly as possible.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EJCC View Post
    That would be counterproductive.

    Honesty is the best medicine!
    I thought I was being called in to balance out all that warm and cuddly Fe. My bad.

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