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    Quote Originally Posted by Haphazard View Post
    I know you are all disgusted with me and I am very disgusted with myself.
    I am not disgusted with you, but I can tell you are disgusted with yourself. Your own opinion of yourself is so important and I wish I knew how to make you feel better about yourself.

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    *laughs* The weight thing was obviously a typo. It would be pretty weird if I only weighed 15lbs.

    I think the lack of a support system is exactly the problem here, but I find it hard to believe that your do for is belittling you as well. I think your self confidence is so low that you're starting to see put-downs where there aren't even any.

    I know what the parent thing is like. As an adult, the lack of validation from my parents is only now something I have come to accept. They are who they are, and you can't change that.

    You need to believe in yourself. It's a horrendously obvious cliche, but it's the truth.

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    Maybe I am going crazy.

    I have been hearing things.
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    Quote Originally Posted by stalemate View Post
    I am not disgusted with you, but I can tell you are disgusted with yourself. Your own opinion of yourself is so important and I wish I knew how to make you feel better about yourself.
    I don't believe that you're not disgusted with me.

    I think I've been lying in this whole thread.

    I don't know, I can't tell. Maybe I just want attention.

    Which sickens me even more.
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    You need to stop side-stepping what everyone is saying and actually take it into consideration. DO you care about fixing this?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Words of Ivory View Post
    You need to stop side-stepping what everyone is saying and actually take it into consideration. DO you care about fixing this?
    I do but I'm not sure if I'm making everything up.

    I probably am. But I don't want to get diagnosed by a doctor because then I'll lose the insurance. My family pays over $1,000 a month for insurance. It's bankrupting us.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Haphazard View Post
    I don't believe that you're not disgusted with me.
    You don't have to believe it. It doesn't matter what I think about you at all. I am not the important one here. We need to get you feeling good about you and everyone else can go fly a kite (me included).

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    Quote Originally Posted by stalemate View Post
    You don't have to believe it. It doesn't matter what I think about you at all. I am not the important one here. We need to get you feeling good about you and everyone else can go fly a kite (me included).
    The only way I got to talk to my doctor today was in tears.

    I do not think it could be any more disgusting.
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    If we thought you were disgusting we would say F*ck Off! And no one said that! We are trying to help you and encourage you. Its hard to have mean parents, it can mess with your head for sure. Be strong! Dont believe what they say, & prove everyone wrong.

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    Just talk to your doctor about all this.

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