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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella View Post
    Oh, my non-abstract mind struggles so.....

    But if you put it like that....o yes, circumstances define self but I think it's something that should be watched and controlled and sort of pushed in the right direction otherwise you'll start making excuses for who and what you are.
    Love? huh?
    How would you definie yourself in terms of love? Are you who you are because of how you love or who you choose to love? Though this question is rather different from the original, I still want to know what you think of it.

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    Nothing controls us. We can learn or adopt a lifestyle from circumstance but it never truly controls us. People let themselves be controlled by it because it is easier then living without out it, with having to create your own circumstance. Circumstance is the largest excuse. If you are threaten with your life to do something, and you do it only to say "I had no choice, it was because of the situation, under the circumstances". This is wrong, This is letting yourself be controlled by circumstance because although your convictions are against it, you are not strong enough to create your own circumstance, to die, or get fired, break up with your better half, steal, dont steal and etc. Your personality created by circumstance is what someone tells themself to sleep easier or to get over a mistake or misdeed they have done.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Chris_in_Orbit View Post
    How would you definie yourself in terms of love? Are you who you are because of how you love or who you choose to love? Though this question is rather different from the original, I still want to know what you think of it.
    Uhm, I don't think so, love isn't a big part of my life....it's over theeeere. I could never use it as a definition for anything.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella View Post
    Uhm, I don't think so, love isn't a big part of my life....it's over theeeere. I could never use it as a definition for anything.
    I'm such an idealist.. I put love on this great pedestal that I hope to build stairs to one day.
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    For real? Romantic love?
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    I probably feel the same way as k. I can be happy without a killer career or a Ferrari, but I won't be satisfied until the "true love" thing works out, hopefully for more than a couple months the second time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella View Post
    For real? Romantic love?
    Yes, actually. I believe in it, albeit I also believe that it's not the center of everyone's life.. it's just one thing that could be. I've known plenty of people live just fine without it in their lives, but as for me I'd like to continue searching for it.
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    Yes, I do want it, but it's searching me, not I for it.
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    That was so corny, what I just said....
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    Lol! Corny is acceptable ^_^b
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