It is irritating (and sad) that we sometimes feel we have to step in when others in our space aren't doing their part to make it comfortable for us. But it is a fact of life, whether we are being inconvenienced by others' children, pets or their own annoying bad habits, that we live with all kinds of other people and we will sometimes be unhappy about that.
The satisfying truth is we don't HAVE to do anything. We can walk away and save our energy for more important things if that will make us happier.
It's a choice!
So my thought is to either do it because it's what you want to do and then not complain about doing what you want to do. Or don't do it and don't allow it to affect your peace of mind. .
Makes it simple from my perspective.