Oh and I am sorry guys, I didn't mean for this thread to make you feel bad or turn into a competition of misery or whatever. Just wanted to see your thoughts. Personally I think that both sides can have it hard. Females who are not feeling enough can be seen as cold, a bitch, ect. I know that occasionally I get that weird look like what?, why would she say that?, arent you upset?, ect. And I know guys who do not exactly get along with the majority of their male counterparts because they value different things from them. Do you think that it might be harder for male Fs just because they might be more likely to dwell on it or take it personally?