*shrug* People will always people. I occasionally attract antagonists, probably because I seem arrogant sometimes, and also I'm pretty self-contained. If you look like a fortress, somebody will want to break you down. When somebody zones in on me, it really doesn't leave me any choice but to call them out, or be off-handedly bitchy. It only takes one person to drag down two people.
Incidentally, a couple of my best friendships were won by just dealing with their shit over a prolonged period of time. Both of them were probably 6's. People are strange, life's strange.