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    Default What Are You Like When You're Angry?

    Anger can be defined as a bubble-up of frustration after reaching a certain point; how do you express this externally? *Do* you express it externally? Or does it seem to come out as a different emotion?

    Personally, I never really get "angry" with others. It seems like I just have "sad" and then "hysterically sad". I wish I could be one of those people that keep a calm exterior when angry, but I seem to have a hard time holding back tears when it happens

    If I encounter conflict with others, I tend to either be able to step back and troubleshoot the situation fairly easily, or I drown everything out and start planning for what I can do about it in the future if the other person is being unreasonable at that time. At most, I might seem impatient, but I usually genuinely want to fix things and make sure I can reach a conclusion where the other person is happy.

    What say you, People of the Internet? What are you like when you're angry?

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    I would say my style of anger is "avoidant". I become very quiet and withdrawn and, as my brother puts it, "scary-calm", until I can push it out of my mind. Unfortunately, this means I internalize all my anger, which I realize is unhealthy. But I don't know how to let it out. I've always regarded outward manifestations of anger as a loss of control.
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    I radiate it like fuck even when I don't know I'm mad.

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    I express it verbally usually. Though sometimes it's better to be alone and throw something. That solitary act of physical aggression can ease tension.

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    It's very rare for me to get truly angry. I get annoyed and ticked off easily, which people can misinterpret for anger, but its a big difference. Anger has a very different feeling for me. Generally speaking I am really good at keeping my anger/temper in check. I've only ever truly lost it a few times in my life, and even then the lid snaps back on in a matter of seconds. It takes a lot to make me mad, and more often than not it's caused by circumstances and objects. People almost never make me truly angry. Someone would have to try and hurt me with explicit malicious intent, and I have never experienced that. Even then it would have to take quite a number of jabs before I snap.

    As far as how my anger is, I'd say it's physically destructive and LOUD. I get extremely vocal when it comes out and the volume goes up to the point where I'll hurt my voice.
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    You can tell.
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    that is all

    i dunno what else to say so

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    I can scream and go off sometimes. Sometimes I cry. Sometimes I vent to others and listen to angry music or drive fast or something. It's almost always very short lived though. I like to purge and move on.
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    I get really aggressive and throw as many insults as possible. I don't get genuinely angry that often.
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