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stalking how far is too far?

ceecee

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do you ever worry that if you show up 5 times in the same thread as a different user you begin to worry they'll think you're stalking them. so you start holding back?

Some of the people I follow on Pintrest and I joke about being Pinstalked. I say - if anyone that I don't follow, pins 5 or more of my pins in one day = Pinstalker.
 

Vasilisa

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It’s easy to deliver a hot take when someone puts themselves out there like that, a vulnerable chicken carcass that falls apart at the joints. Your argument is strong; you are right, the behavior was unflattering, maybe disgusting. It’s harder to say, “Hello, I am the disgusting person.”​

 

prplchknz

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It’s easy to deliver a hot take when someone puts themselves out there like that, a vulnerable chicken carcass that falls apart at the joints. Your argument is strong; you are right, the behavior was unflattering, maybe disgusting. It’s harder to say, “Hello, I am the disgusting person.”​


She’s given you an escapist piece of non-fiction that made you feel like less of an animal because you drew the line at Instagram creeping.

I never felt like an animal for this though. instagram creeping is far far far far different then show up at someone's house that said bad things about me online.
 

Mademoiselle

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Stalking means trying to get informations that a person doesn’t like you to do so..
Privacy is a basic human right.
On the internet and in social medias, it’s totally OK to use your own account to find out about what other people share or publish.. (As long as you have the acsess)
You shouldn’t hack people’s accounts.

Also they should only share what they don’t mind you to know.
In real life, there are two rules we often break, which leads to stalking:
*People should care for others.
*People should mind their own business.

There’s a simple way to apply both of them:
>Never try to hurt anyone, it’s wrong.
>Give advice or suggestion only if you’re asked, you can also ask them if they need any.
>Instead of seeking other people’s flaws, mistakes, focus on improving yourself.

Hope I helped. :D
 
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