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    Senior Member ceecee's Avatar
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    INTJ, enneagram 8, quite sure sp first, not sure on the rest.
    I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.

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    1.certainty/secuirty
    4.connection/love

    INFP,?, Sp/Sx

    I dunno I don't think I get them met all the time
    In no likes experiment.

    that is all

    i dunno what else to say so

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    growth
    connection/love

    INFP E4w5 sx/so

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    ISFP 6w7 So/Sx

    1) Growth
    2) Connection/Love
    3) Significance
    4) Certainty/Security
    5) Contribution
    6) Uncertainty/Variety

    A little bit.

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    4) Connection/love
    3) Significance
    1) or 5) would be third/fourth.

    INTJ 5w4 sx/sp
    I connect significance with purpose. Security is vital, but pointless if it edges out one of the top 2.

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    Growth

    ENFP 7w6 2w1 9w1 sx/sp
    You hem me in -- behind and before;
    you have laid your hand upon me.
    Such knowledge is too wonderful for me,
    too lofty for me to attain.

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    ENFP 7w6 - 2w3 - 9w8 so/sx or sx/so

    1. Connection/Love
    2. Uncertainty/Variety

    Interesting how most of the self-typed 6s so far go with Certainty/Security. Unsurprising, but interesting.

    At the same time, I thought I wouldn't be the first one in this thread to go with Uncertainty/Variety given the amount of Ps in this thread but it looks like it. Although it makes sense for me given E and P seem to be my strongest preferences.

    Anyway, my reasons are obviously I'll feel unfulfilled without significant connections. Specifically searching for that connection with that one special person, because it seems so hard to find and so fulfilling. Uncertainty/Variety comes at a very close second, because although I do love the feeling of security and having a safety net my life would feel so dull if it was stuck in a routine. Adding variety to my live keeps me alive and reminds me how much of life there is yet to be explored.

    As for why I didn't pick the others, I didn't pick growth because I mostly care about being happy. As long as I feel happy/fulfilled I'm not too concerned with growth. Same goes for significance. I also don't really feel a need to contribute to anything if it doesn't relate to my personal gain as terrible as it sounds haha. Watching the world come together in unity is a beautiful thing and of course I'll do my part, but most of the time I'm just looking out for my own benefit. A bit selfish, I know.

    tl;dr - my first priority in life is happiness and the two I picked are most closely related to it for me.

    Thanks for the thread @Urarienev.

    Oh, and my needs have changed over time. But I'm only 18. As a child, I would have prioritized Uncertainty/Variety over Connection/Love.
    7w6 - 2w3 - 8w7 sx/so


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    INFP 4w5 sx/sp

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    ESTJ 1w2-7w6-3w4 so/sx/sp

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    Quote Originally Posted by Urarienev View Post
    - If you want to explain how you get these needs met, that would be awesome too.
    Becoming a better and more capable person over time. Making a tangible difference.
    Quote Originally Posted by Urarienev View Post
    - And do you think your needs have changed over time?
    Not really. I think if you'd asked me this three or four years ago, I would have underestimated my need for growth, and would have put "certainty/security" as my second. But now I know what stagnation feels like, enough to know that it suffocates me like it would suffocate a fish.


    Edit: Wasn't sure how to separate "significance" and "contribution" -- decided that by my working definition, "contribution" can include "significant contribution", but without the glory. I can do without the glory.
    ~ g e t f e s t i v e ! ~


    EJCC: "The Big Questions in my life right now: 1) What am I willing to live with? 2) What do I have to live with? 3) What can I change for the better?"
    Coriolis: "Is that the ESTJ Serenity Prayer?"



    ESTJ - LSE - ESTj (mbti/socionics)
    1w2/7w6/3w4 so/sx (enneagram)
    want to ask me something? go for it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Urarienev View Post
    1)Certainty/Security
    2)Uncertainty/Variety
    3)Significance
    4)Connection/Love
    5)Growth
    6)Contribution

    - Please list your MBTI, enneatype, and/or varients if possible.

    - If you want to explain how you get these needs met, that would be awesome too.

    - And do you think your needs have changed over time?
    1- Connection / Love. I simply need it.
    2- Toss up between Growth and Contribution. Remaining stagnant / not contuining to learn, is like death to me. But also- I need to give back anywhere that I can.

    MBTI and enneagram are in my signature.

    I get these needs met thru close individuals in my life. Romantic love interest and children and friends. Also, reading- searching - not believing everything I read- seeking a higher truth always. And getting involved in areas where my skills can serve others.

    Yes- my needs have changed over time. The first two not so much- but the need to contribute has increased exponentially once I proved myself professionally. Now I want to help others.
    It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are. ~e.e. cummings

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