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View Poll Results: do you hold on to resentments?

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  • just while the situation is going on

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    Senior Member prplchknz's Avatar
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    Default do you hold on to resentments?

    I wanna know

    for me I do as long as the situation causing the conflict is going on, once it's over I stop resenting the person. I tend to be one of those-I hate you, because you did this-then they apologize/i have an epiphany. Then I'll be their friend and I'll like them, usually
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    that is all

    i dunno what else to say so

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    Nah, not worth it, fuck that gross resentment shit.
    Forgive and forget unless it's something serious.

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    No. It takes a lot of energy to stay angry and there are usually more important things to worry about.

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    Then life seems almost enchanted after all."
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    While it's going on. *But* if they stop doing it for awhile, if they do it again, the resentment seems to come back full-force along with a sense of dread.
    “There are two novels that can change a bookish fourteen-year old’s life: The Lord of the Rings and Atlas Shrugged. One is a childish fantasy that often engenders a lifelong obsession with its unbelievable heroes, leading to an emotionally stunted, socially crippled adulthood, unable to deal with the real world. The other, of course, involves orcs.”
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    Quote Originally Posted by cafe View Post
    While it's going on. *But* if they stop doing it for awhile, if they do it again, the resentment seems to come back full-force along with a sense of dread.
    yes, me too. I forgot about if they do it again caveat
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    i dunno what else to say so

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    Usually no. Only unless there is a reason to do so, or until a person shows evidence of change to undo it.
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