(that is one risque' emotican - i'll never see it in quite the same way.)
The first man to raise a fist is the man who's run out of ideas. H.G. WELLS
The first principle is that you must not fool yourself, and you are the easiest person to fool. FEYNMAN If this is monkey pee, you're on your own.SCULLY
The very warm use sex to feel closer to others? The very cold use impersonal sex to create distance? Some of the very warm will regret it, because they don't achieve the emotional intimacy they think will come with physical intimacy, yet they keep on making that mistake. But others won't have regrets, they're the ones with the free love attitude.