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Repression

TickTock

Mud and rain and chaos...
Joined
Jan 18, 2008
Messages
948
MBTI Type
INFP
Enneagram
4w3
What has the difference been in being told you can't do something and that only making you want to do said thing more and possibly even acting on that, vs being told that you shouldn't do something and going along with that / conforming?

Or any thoughts on this in general are welcome.
 

Redbone

Orisha
Joined
Apr 27, 2010
Messages
2,882
MBTI Type
ENFP
Enneagram
9w8
Instinctual Variant
sx/so
It never meant much to me. I'd listen, smile, nod, and proceed to do whatever it was I wanted anyway. I've never understood the desire to do something "more" because of being told I couldn't or shouldn't.
 

á´…eparted

passages
Joined
Jan 25, 2014
Messages
8,265
I can't relate to it. If someone tells me I can't do something it's largely irrelevant to me. It doesn't make me want to do it more. I don't get the motivation to "prove someone wrong" like, ever. If someone tells me I can't, then I'll consider it, see if it's a logical reasoning (I'll often ask why they think this). If it makes sense, and there'd be consequences if I were to attempt it, then I'll listen. If not, I'll keep doing it and disregard their comment as erroneous.

The idea of conforming/not comforming for the sake of, is something I just don't think about. It's meaningless the vast majority of the time.
 
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WALMART

Guest
You know, Jung's Fi profile seems to be primarily concerned with that traditional notion of psychological repression. I have been curious about this as well.

I am in the first category, and perhaps uncoincidentally, do not identify with Fi.
 
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