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    Lately, I've felt intense bouts of directionless anger which occur irrespective to my real world environment. They dissapate almost as quickly as they begin. Anger is usually a rare state for me. What may prevent these unpleasant episodes in the future?


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    I don't lash out at anybody, but the source of such intense anger is puzzling...
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    What do you eat? Do you have any minor food intolerances that don't register as allergies? I say this because I always get kinda unpleasantly intoxicated when I eat gluten, and I'm starting to think milk gives me anger attacks.

    What you described has happened to me, particularly in my younger years, but lately it's just come in very minor surges and I can usually dissolve them. I would clench my teeth and sometimes squeeze the blood vessels in my head. My parents also noticed I'd respond to sensory stimulus, like too many bright lights and loud noises.

    Actual anger, though...that's a different story...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nihilogen View Post
    What do you eat? Do you have any minor food intolerances that don't register as allergies? I say this because I always get kinda unpleasantly intoxicated when I eat gluten, and I'm starting to think milk gives me anger attacks.

    What you described has happened to me, particularly in my younger years, but lately it's just come in very minor surges and I can usually dissolve them. I would clench my teeth and sometimes squeeze the blood vessels in my head. My parents also noticed I'd respond to sensory stimulus, like too many bright lights and loud noises.

    Actual anger, though...that's a different story...
    I was tested a long time ago, and I have antibodies for a lot of foods and substances.
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    @Magic Qwan

    Do yoga, take valerian root capsules, exercise, make sure and get 7-9 hours of sleep a night, avoid stimulants such as coffee and caffeine in general, and try to eliminate life stressors. This helps me to deal with anxiety and anger.

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    Maybe let yourself experience it? I repress anger and it causes me so many problems. I have such a problem expressing it and allowing myself to even feel it that it makes me feel trapped. The actual feeling of anger is over very quickly, apparently. It's when I turns into aggression and you start being aggressive in behaviour that it becomes a problem. But actually addressing the feeling is meant to be healthy apparently. Somebody gave me this advice but I am as of yet unsure of how to put it into practice.
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    Quote Originally Posted by The Great One View Post
    @Magic Qwan

    Do yoga, take valerian root capsules, exercise, make sure and get 7-9 hours of sleep a night, avoid stimulants such as coffee and caffeine in general, and try to eliminate life stressors. This helps me to deal with anxiety and anger.
    I have sleep down, at least.

    Thank you, I will try the other stuff.
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    I don't really experience anger. It's really rare. Most of the time, it just gets swallowed and that's that. When it does come out it can be really really nasty. Though I have learned to let it out in controlled doses when it wells up.

    I have a really short list of things that truly make me angry anyway.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Magic Qwan View Post
    I have sleep down, at least.

    Thank you, I will try the other stuff.
    Yeah no problem.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Magic Qwan View Post
    I don't lash out at anybody, but the source of such intense anger is puzzling...
    I think it is important to pay attention to all of those physical factors...diet, sleep, activity levels, environmental factors <-but these things can only have an intensifying effect on an actual anger that is already in place. IOw, these are real feelings that need to be acknowledged/claimed. Don't snuff them out but bravely follow them to their source. I know you can do this.

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