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Shying away from private messaging...

The Ü™

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The last PM I got was a reprimand from the humorless madministration.
 

Simplexity

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CC does have a point though that it does take time. I enjoy it very much but currently I still have 4 pms I still have to answer to. Reasons I haven't is coz at least 3 of them are quite heavy in content and I need to think about it, as well as finding the time to write my thoughts down, which can take a while to formulate. I always reply, so don't worry if I don't immediately :)

Overall I do enjoy PM's. They tend to be warmer and more insightful than the forum, though the forum is also fun to play around on :)


Really... I'm still waiting for your responses...
 

Amargith

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Really... I'm still waiting for your responses...

Promise I will get to that. It's been a hell week. And the request you made asks me to go a bit more in dept than with your usual casual PM :)
I wanna do it right :hug:
 

Mole

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..being here is like being in a foreign country...

Every foreign country I've been in I have been shown hospitality.

But not here.

It is hard to know why.

I don't think it is outright zenophobia.

But it seems there is a hidden agenda here.

And zenophobia merely reinforces it.
 

nightning

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Every foreign country I've been in I have been shown hospitality.

But not here.

It is hard to know why.

I don't think it is outright zenophobia.

But it seems there is a hidden agenda here.

And zenophobia merely reinforces it.
Nonsense! Here is no different from any other forums... or foreign countries for that matter... if a bit multicultural than most.

The difference isn't in the place, it's in your head. The only hidden agenda is whatever you perceived it to be. Nothing more.
 

A Schnitzel

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Don't worry. I always use protection.

But you can see why a guy would shy away from that sorta thing if he forgot protection.

I wouldn't want any small Schnitzels walking around just because of one hot pm session.
 

Mole

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The only hidden agenda is whatever you perceived it to be. Nothing more.

Perhaps the hidden agenda is driven by an unconscious group fantasy.

This would explain why it is denied and defended with such emotion.

It would also explain the odd lack of curiosity of the content of the group fantasy.

After all the group fantasy is kept unconscious for good reason.

But what is the reason?
 

luridlemur

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Not very active on this forum, but most PMs I send are about someone's avatar or an interesting post. Sometimes I send weird shit to people, because it's the kind of interaction I like receiving unexpectedly. Must strike me as fitting for some sort of context, though. I don't have very many PM conversations, because I do not often have more to say after one or two have been exhanged.

I respond to just about any PM I get, barring spam or things from people I don't like.
 
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