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Do IEI's like to be chased?

chickpea

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It depends on the IEI… but for me, give or take 9 months.

okay that's maybe kind of ridiculous, what exactly are they chasing after for 9 months?
 

Azure Flame

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If an SLE is chasing an IEI for 9 months, its because they asked the girl out and she said yes but nothing has happened yet.

That's when you move on.

I would give an IEI 3 months of sustained effort, max. Anything more than that and she's either leading me on, or has a broken personality.
 

Thursday

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What I don't understand is WHY they want to be chased.

Because we're more of the back-seat lovers who entice and make others take the initiative. You push, we pull. We work behind-the-scenes and are private.
 
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