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    Quote Originally Posted by Vetani View Post
    Well I don't know about other SLEs, but for me when someone approaches me I get very suspicious. My Fi PoLR would act up and my head goes "What the hell does he want from me?". To chase others is a way of being sure of your agenda, and when I chase I make sure my agenda gets set out VERY CLEARLY to the other person.
    Yeah, to the point where you'll rebel against the attention and potential for control from that person that you seem to perceive. Otoh, I enjoy forming bonds with people. Im always open to that, so to be approached is a new opportunity for something beautiful imho
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    Quote Originally Posted by Amargith View Post
    Yeah, to the point where you'll rebel against the attention and potential for control from that person that you seem to perceive. Otoh, I enjoy forming bonds with people. Im always open to that, so to be approached is a new opportunity for something beautiful imho
    lol lol lol

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    Meanwhile your clear chase takes away any insecurity we might have as to bothering you, or somehow wasting our time with you. Dont forget you guys do the action oriented shit that we just...aren't that comfortable with. Chasing after someone can feel a bit daunting as it requires direct action and working towards a goal.
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    It depends on who's doing the chasing.

    I don't expect a chase so much as persistence and determination - I'm worth winning and I want to know my chosen one is up for the challenge.
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    "I want to make sure I'm the one they really want."

    I guess that makes sense. It doesn't make sense in the online arena when you're trying to get to know someone and keep asking them out for coffee and they stop responding then you just start talking again a few days later.

    I agree with vetani, that makes me feel better. When someone approaches me my initial question is, "What do they want from me?" The reason being, 10% of people I speak to actually give a shit about me and would rather just talk to me because I'm attractive and they want immediate sex, or they're trolling me, or I have something they want. Very few people actually come up to me like, "Oh, so I see you like sci fi fantasy and gymnastics? I'm a huge fantasy and gymnastics fan! Lets go talk about it!"

    Or they come up to me because of leadership/confidence reasons. Being viewed as a leader is nice and all, but its annoying feeling responsible for the self confidence of random fucking strangers.

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    Well, that seems like a subtle hint where they aint ready yet for an irl confrontation (for whatever reason) and first wanna gather data talking to you here some more.
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    @Amargith
    she keep saying, "I love hiking. Its time to go to the mountains!"

    If anything it sounds like she's trying to say "ask me out on a hike."

    I remember meeting an IEI waitress once, after every activity I mentioned in our conversation she'd respond with, "oo That sounds fun."

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    Quote Originally Posted by DJ Arendee View Post
    @Amargith
    she keep saying, "I love hiking. Its time for to go to the mountains!"

    If anything it sounds like she's trying to say "ask me out on a hike"
    Maybe she doesnt like coffee? Ask her where she'd like to go, then arrange it

    Edit: and yes, anything is fun when you get to do it with a person you are very interested in. We're flexible that way
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    This is gay. Bitch is gonna learn some directness when she speaks to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DJ Arendee View Post
    This is gay. Bitch is gonna learn some directness when she speaks to me.
    Lol. You do realize that the very reason you are into us in the first place is coz we *do not* do directness, right? Any directness is considered either an attack or an attempt to usurp you of your power :P
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