As ENFP, enneagram 7- I very much do not tolerate being controlled or controlling others. To a point where I will put my independence above all else. I've heard some people describe this same value as not wanting to be deprived. For me, it has nothing to do with feeling deprived- but everything to do with the principal of no one or nothing has the right over me. (I believe in God, and only He has the right over me.)
I will willingly give respect to deserving people (parents, elders, people who are worthy by being respectful themselves- even the right boss!) so I do not mind putting them "above" me. But if someone were to ever manage to control me (by force or what not) I would not slowly die of deprivation ...... It would be the sense of injustice that would kill me or make me fight to the death.