Many people say that, ya. Me not think it for true. Me avatars no matchup wit da INFPs. (patois rant)
Are you a people pleasing masochist or are you a self-absorbed masochist? Pick your poison.
With dreamers, pure and simple, the imagination remains a vaguely sketched inner affair. It is not embodied in any aesthetic or practical invention. Reverie is the equivalent of weak desires. Dreamers are the aboulics of the creative imagination.
It's natural for me to be in control. It's not something I actively seek, it just happens because of some subconscious drive I guess. My boyfriend is the same way. How I feel if someone else tries to control me? All I have to say about that is, good luck.