I admit to having a "somebody's got to be in charge and get stuff done 'round here" attitude. It might be defined as a little controlling.
me too, but only if the situation requires and/or there isnt anyone trust worthy to lead. i dont see it as being controlling of people, but of the situation and i think the topic is about being controlling of people
"Where wisdom reigns, there is no conflict between thinking and feeling."
— C.G. Jung
Its amusing when people try to control me when they don't have the slightest modicum of discipline, concerning themselves. With that said, I like it when someone feels slightly superior than me, because my love his evoked and my interest is held when this occurs. I'm a lot to handle, and if someone can handle it, I find it arousing.
There are different types of control. I didn't like it when i was in an abusive relationship and my ex controlled every part of my life (including not letting me know my password for my own email account and logging in for me). But i liked it when i was with my ISTJ and he controlled the boring and mundane (to me) aspects of life. Like making sure bills were paid on time, and the garbage was out and printing 3 copies of our holiday itinerary.
Terrible things happen to good people every day.
Consequentially, I am not one of the good people. I am one of the terrible things..
I fight against being controlled. I never thought of myself as controlling. I admit to having a "somebody's got to be in charge and get stuff done 'round here" attitude. It might be defined as a little controlling.
When that comes up I say - I don't see anyone else jumping up to do stuff so just sit there and be helpless. Do what you excel at.
That's probably a little controlling and asshole-ish but by that time I don't even care.
I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.