To add my 2 cents...our negative side hurts others and brings them down, our positive side helps and lifts people up. I really have no idea where you get the distinctions between what is false and true. Sounds like someone who is just trying to repress what he doesnt like and does like. Everyone is different, to follow my desires is to be true to thy self, so squashing them is being fake. The thing is...we have a brain to find ways to be true to ourselves that dont hurt others or bring them down.
Some people try to repress themselves and in turn repress others, some people try to grow and try to help others grow as well.