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    Default Why do I fall in love with everyone?

    I just finished the book club book, Anathem, and by the end I was a little in love with 2 of the characters and sad to leave them behind. I'm currently traveling with a colleague who I've never really had any special affection for, and suddenly I'm seized with a deep affection for him (though not of a sexual nature). I think I'm in love with Mexican men as a whole. Also, fishermen/sailors/seamen-- the young ones, at least.

    I love my husband and all of these feeling in no way affect my relationship with him-- what we have is calmer, but deeper, but my soul seems to crave infatuation as well.

    I don't think I'd ever act on it, but it's annoying. Sigh... and yet wonderful....
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    maybe its simply that, you enjoy the feeling of infatuation...a lot... im sure its perfectly harmless as long as you have no interest to take it any further, heck, im infatuate with at least 20 people on this board, but have no interest in taking it beyond friendship with any of them...well, possibly one, someday...lol

    Edit: although who knows, im single unlike you, maybe as i get to know them better, there will be more I will be interested in as more...
    You are not powerless, you just need to accept your power for what it is, a part of the whole, no one man can save the world, but you can be a light to those who envelope themselves in darkness, The candle that sparks the inferno.

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    Step 1: Get a room
    Step 2: Call hubby
    Step 3: Screw like tornadoes

    Problem solved.

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    This is why I don't read anymore.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ultimawepun View Post
    Step 1: Get a room
    Step 2: Call hubby
    Step 3: Screw like tornadoes

    Problem solved.
    I thought that said tomatoes at first, and was very very confused, I was like "what are they supposed to do? make ketchup?"
    You are not powerless, you just need to accept your power for what it is, a part of the whole, no one man can save the world, but you can be a light to those who envelope themselves in darkness, The candle that sparks the inferno.
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    Attraction releases endorphins in your brain that make you happy, get you high. Feels good, man.


    I do that, too. I get crushes on.... probably greater than 50% of the people I meet/talk to. But it usually doesn't take me long to get over it/find something about them that way turns me off to them.
    “Everybody has a secret world inside of them. All of the people of the world, I mean everybody. No matter how dull and boring they are on the outside, inside
    them they've all got unimaginable, magnificent, wonderful, stupid, amazing worlds. Not just one world. Hundreds of them. Thousands maybe.” -Neil Gaiman

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    Quote Originally Posted by Patches View Post
    Attraction releases endorphins in your brain that make you happy, get you high. Feels good, man.


    I do that, too. I get crushes on.... probably greater than 50% of the people I meet/talk to. But it usually doesn't take me long to get over it/find something about them that way turns me off to them.
    Right, that's exactly me too. And fictional characters are harmless.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Curator View Post
    I thought that said tomatoes at first, and was very very confused, I was like "what are they supposed to do? make ketchup?"
    Kinkiness knows no bounds. Who knows? Sounds fun to me though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ultimawepun View Post
    Kinkiness knows no bounds. Who knows? Sounds fun to me though.
    hehehehehe
    You are not powerless, you just need to accept your power for what it is, a part of the whole, no one man can save the world, but you can be a light to those who envelope themselves in darkness, The candle that sparks the inferno.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ultimawepun View Post
    Kinkiness knows no bounds. Who knows? Sounds fun to me though.
    Masquerading as a normal person day after day is exhausting.

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