Ok, let's review the five love languages:
Words of Affirmation
Acts of Service
I just realized that my partner's love languages are quality time & acts of service, & in the spirit of the theory, that's how he likes to be shown love. Mine are words of affirmation & gifts, I'm very NF that way, I love to point out people's unique traits that I find appealing, & get goofy little symbolic gifts that make me think of them.
I suck at Acts of Service! If I had an SJ bone in my body, I'd be set. I need to seriously work on loving my guy with those chores!
Anyone in the same dilemma? It seems like acts of service favors SJs or Js, words of affirmation & gifts favors Fs, while quality time & physical touch could transcend temperament type.