I'm talking about some personal development programs or ideas, somethat that you've decided to improve on your person.
So, what things you strive at in your personal development, and what's the backstory to why you decided to take it as your goal?
I'll tell you mine.
-This thing I just figured out completely just while ago, so I'm in the beginning with this: I'll try to criticize less. I found out this when I met another even more insanely criticizing person than myself, and noticed there are limits to criticism people can tolerate. Then I read about about getting along with people, and it showed good examples while criticism, while theoretically sound manner, is ill-suited for almost all occasions for various reasons, if a good relationship with people is to be maintened.
-This development I've almost completed. I'll try to work more on the normal stuff that has to do with society. I'll be less eccentric, I'll try to be less of a special person, genius, etc.. I'll find connections with people in the normal things and learn to appreciate them, while maintaining my special things at the same time. I figured this out long ago when I found some special high IQ groups I had participated unsatisfactory, and found myself depressed from not having people to connect with.
-I'm in the middle of this. I'm trying to get more feeling in my life. I was devastated because of my difficulties at a time, and a shrink gave a last advice for me.. develop your feeling. I felt like it connected with something I had years ago.
-I'm past middle in this development. I'm trying to get more punctual, orderly and organized, while not organizing the wrong things. I noticed time go, and I had fun, but some people were able to ignore the fun opportunities and work on their stuff. I realized that my fun-seeking attitude wasn't bringing me the best fun, as I occasionally got troubles. I decided to learn to organize - it's easy to organize fast, and then I can enjoy good results later for a long period of time.
So, what's yours?