Thanks for answers. Maybe I didn't explain in a good way; it's not only their opinion, it's their actions from past. For example, I have an aunt who is liked by whole family, but she used to come to our house regularly and say that "all Serbians should be killed" in front of my mom, and then my mom started to debate with her does she think my mom deserves to die blahblah and managed to shut up my aunt, but each next time she comes she continues with old stuff. And if I ever try to say anything against this aunt I'd only be called uncaring bc they are oblivious to this other perspective of not hating. Its like this with most people and situations. Thing is, I dont care is it possible to change their mind, they are already morons, no way to completely change their minds that's obvious. I just dont know how to act.. because I get mixed feelings/memories of some people being really nuts and nationalists so I cant view them with respect at all. That's very close family I am talking about.
My initial instinct is idealistic and to convince everyone out of such views, but again I hold grudges..and their minds cant be changed. After that my instinct is to be direct, but that way I'd only make way too many enemies.
Thing is my mom and sister dont mind socializing with them superficially and ignoring who they really are, but I do mind until i resolved it all.
Maybe as someone suggested I should talk one on one with some of them and say what I think...
But dont know what do you get then from such relationship?Originally Posted by spamtar