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    Do you ever feel like you speak more than you should?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatGirl View Post
    Do you ever feel like you speak more than you should?
    Not usually but sometimes, I go on too much. I don't think it is Te exactly that's the culpritl

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    I actually don't think I speak enough. I hold a lot in because I want to be nice/polite and I want to be on good terms with people. I like talking a lot/rambling, and generally my friends are entertained by it too. What I hate is when I feel like I'm not allowed to talk, or when I can't allow myself to talk. (cough enneagram 1 cough.) If I didn't have as much of a filter, I'd be happier, I think.
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    EJCC, that's usually why I refrain from making a lot of comments. I think first about the impact it will have on my reputation with the person. Usually when I do speak, it involves giving commands, explaining something or criticizing someone. Heh.


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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatGirl View Post
    Do you ever feel like you speak more than you should?
    You should have asked this.

    Do you ever feel that you are more forceful than you should be ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by EJCC View Post
    I actually don't think I speak enough. I hold a lot in because I want to be nice/polite and I want to be on good terms with people. I like talking a lot/rambling, and generally my friends are entertained by it too. What I hate is when I feel like I'm not allowed to talk, or when I can't allow myself to talk. (cough enneagram 1 cough.) If I didn't have as much of a filter, I'd be happier, I think.
    Introverted perception is censureship.
    It does not curtail energy as such. It is a system of check. A control mechanism.

    ESTJs are the people who have got the highest energy level of the types.
    Consequently they are endowed with the highest control level of the types, to match the energy. It brings about elasticity.
    ESTJ = Te > Si.
    ISTJ = Si > Te.

    ESTJs have got a higher control level than the even ISTJs, in general.
    Your energy level is still higher. A valid point.
    The ISTJs have a lower control level; only the energy level is even lower than the control.

    The ESTJs have it better. And therefore you achieve much more in your life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatGirl
    Do you ever feel like you speak more than you should?
    I´m not a talkative person.

    I speak only when I have to. That is, when the topic of the conversation is interesting to me, and I know that I can add something relevant to a discussion. Or when someone makes a question about something that I know well enough.

    Sometimes, when anger starts taking over me because of being in situations in which people around me are engaged in uninteresting or stupid conversations; I abstain from saying a word because I know that I could cause an outrage because of my trademark bluntness. In the meantime, I take my mind somewhere else, to extinguish my anger (Type 1 here) and not appear disrespectful.

    Quote Originally Posted by Antisocial one View Post
    You should have asked this.

    Do you ever feel that you are more forceful than you should be ?
    Now, this a good question. Yes, I do, and I think that´s why I´ve earned my reputation as a blunt among my friends and colleagues. But I can´t be the other way, because sugar-coated judgements or white lies are not my thing. I describe things as I see them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wildcat View Post
    Introverted perception is censureship.
    It does not curtail energy as such. It is a system of check. A control mechanism.

    ESTJs are the people who have got the highest energy level of the types.
    Consequently they are endowed with the highest control level of the types, to match the energy. It brings about elasticity.
    ESTJ = Te > Si.
    ISTJ = Si > Te.

    ESTJs have got a higher control level than the even ISTJs, in general.
    Your energy level is still higher. A valid point.
    The ISTJs have a lower control level; only the energy level is even lower than the control.

    The ESTJs have it better. And therefore you achieve much more in your life.
    This is a really good post. Wildcat's brilliance never fails to impress.


    And to answer the OP - yes. I speak a great deal.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatGirl View Post
    Do you ever feel like you speak more than you should?
    I can't tell you how proud I am that you have realized this portion of yourself. Take it a step further please.

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