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    Pleading with God.
    Comparing my life to "normal".
    Disowning myself.
    Looking back over my shoulder. Always.
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    Feeling chronically dissatisfied with things and people.

    Not pushing myself to act when I need to, and working too hard for things that don't matter.

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    Some people say I don't take life seriously enough, I tell them it's just the way I outwardly behave because it feels better this way.

    In any case I'm probably a bit insecure in romantic relationship. Since it's not big insecurity, I don't think it's something solvable...except this, I don't have any I think. I never felt like I had as a child, my parents didn't impose me anything I just always did what I wanted. The only little problem started when I had romantic relationships and that's the only thing in life that has given me some problems, probably (not many, though).

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    I'd like to feel like an adult, finally. Or rather, I wish I could let go of wanting to be a kid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ptgatsby View Post
    I'd like to feel like an adult, finally. Or rather, I wish I could let go of wanting to be a kid.
    Pshaw! NEVER let go of your childlike effervescence!

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    Quote Originally Posted by INTJMom View Post
    Pshaw! NEVER let go of your childlike effervescence!
    As long as you're willing to change his diapers, I'm fine with that.
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    My chain? Oh, probably at the root it's not fully accepting who I am, off and on thinking something's 'wrong' with me (and therefore feeling I have to change something or other for others to like and accept me), and always comparing myself to others.
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    Fear. Wanting to hide or run away. From everything.

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    I was actually talking to pt about this, because I wasn't sure or aware of any chains that I had that I actually cared to break (in that sense). I have phobias and fears but none that hinder me to the point where I would consider it as something I need to break, if you know what I mean.

    Anyways, pt pointed out a fear that I do have, that I don't even notice and I guess that I do have to face it and hopefully break myself of it.

    It's funny for me, as a strong introvert, I am deadly afraid of being alone (I have huge abandonment issues). So, without going into a ton of details and explanations, that is the chain that I have and would like to break - fear of being alone.

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    I have a colossal fear of being/dying alone. I don't even think I'm going to be alone, ever, but somehow, if I think about it, I feel like crap.

    I always try to make myself "better"-this is better in the sense of "more like the norm," because I feel like I've developed all of the loner, mega-thoughtful aspects of who I am and not the part that is friendly and all that. I mean, I genuinely am who I am every time I post, but I'm not sure when I'll be happy with myself, and stop trying to improve (improve as I see fit). I think I'm good, but I could be better. Somehow I think I want to be this totally spectacular three-dimensional person without faults. I tend to second guess everything I say, too. However, this typically happens on a bad day, otherwise I feel just fine...I'm learning to accept who I am still yet. The thought that I could possibly live with this anxiety is horrifying...but I attribute it mostly to being a moody teenager, at least, I hope so.

    I'm great at overthinking, too.
    Still using a needle to break apart a grain of sand.

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