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    I need to get over it or my coping mechanisms will kill me

    I've always had an overdeveloped sense of justice... this just smacked all of the idealism out of it... and that law enforcement would tell me that it was my fault... how am I supposed to react to that? Especially when I've come to the conclusion that no matter what happens the law hates me?
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    I need to get over it or my coping mechanisms will kill me
    Eh... poor choice of terms. And I don't mean "get over it" in the conventional glib sense, either.

    What I really mean is some way to make some sort of peace within yourself with the people responsible for the event.

    Or, yes, the resulting stress could shorten your life, or drive risky behaviors that will REALLY shorten your life.

    EDIT: Eh... forget it, whatevs. I'm talking about crap I know almost nothing about.

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    risky behavior ftw!

    distractions with Se... brought to you by whatever!
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    I'm aware of that point... but what they did wasn't something that's really easily forgivable at all... I'm mad at them, I'm mad at the justice system, I'm mad at the unfairness of the whole thing... I'm still mad at me, even though years of therapy have told me that it isn't my fault. The fucking police told me that it was and that I got what I had coming to me :steam:

    I'm even more angry at the knowlege that the same thing happens to people every day and they get the same response... where is justice?
    Justice and the system is crap No I have never been through anything like this...its just my percieved opinion...its better then nothing, but still crap.

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    risky behavior ftw!

    distractions with Se... brought to you by whatever!
    Im out, its been fun

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    yes, If this were movie world I'd strike back
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    yes, If this were movie world I'd strike back
    I'd find me a fast ship and say screw the world...
    Im out, its been fun

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    lol... going off and being antisocial... that would be tempting until it would occur to me that I'm not the most interesting company for me since I always know what I'm going to say (ok... sometimes aware )

    I'd probably be the one working hard to set injustices straight and getting my own personal revenge... all with cool special effects and a badass costume
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    I have a nice home, a wonderful man, a loving family and my job plans are even starting to pan out... and yet somewhere in the back of my mind, and in my muscles, I feel an overwhelming need to punch something

    I don't get it... it's like underneath the surface I'm amazingly angry about something... and I can't even figure out what! I've always been known for having a flash temper in my family and by my friends- I'm quick to set off and I get over the actual being angry quite quickly as well... but for some reason, for just about as long as I can remember, there's been some sense of being angry sitting somewhere farther back in my mind

    I KNOW it's not right- I have nothing to be mad about that consistently... and to express it towards someone or something undeserving is against my beleifs in decency and politeness... so it just sits there and waits and occasionally seeps out a bit towards those who are deemed deserving of some snark

    I've spent years in therapy, I used to box, I get plenty of exercize and it won't leave... I don't know why

    why the fuck can't I just be normal? I can't even think of a reason for this! Anyone else identify... or better yet- does anyone have a solution that works?
    I don't know what type of therapy you've been getting, but psychoanalysis would help you get to the root of the problem. Also, make sure it isn't something physical, like hyperthyroidism or some other hormone abnormality (see a doctor).

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    lol... going off and being antisocial... that would be tempting until it would occur to me that I'm not the most interesting company for me since I always know what I'm going to say (ok... sometimes aware )

    I'd probably be the one working hard to set injustices straight and getting my own personal revenge... all with cool special effects and a badass costume
    Ill get you my number so I can be a side-kick at times...I want the fun, but I cant commit to it.
    Im out, its been fun

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    yeah... I'll let you play with weapons and help make bombs and such!

    I might have to involve my sis for the whole "helping stay committed" part... especially since the concept of vengance appeals to her in a way!
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