when i have nightmares now there is someone out there waiting to get me, like you said. but they are not chasing me very actively, and i never see them. it is more a sense that no matter where i go i will never be safe.
haha, i am the snorer in my relationship.yeah- the fears that seem really REAL in a nightmare can easily be abated by a warm sleeping person... especially when they snore very consistantly
but my wife likes to sleep with her head on my chest, and i think i like it even more than she does!