I can be emotionally consonant or emotionally dissonant.
And I can be intellectually understood or intellectually misunderstood.
So I can be consonant and understood, or consonant and misunderstood. Or I can be dissonant and understood or dissonant and misunderstood.
Each combination has its uses.
I find the most difficult is to be dissonant and misunderstood. Often because it can be a little dangerous.
But there is little danger here, so I can be dissonant and misunderstood to my heart's content.
It's like exercising an unused muscle - sometimes a little painful, sometimes I overdo it - but always something new and exciting.