ESFJ i have know tend to be more violent/angry, have also known some ISTPs who are less angry but more prone to violence.
INTPs I believe can tend to hold in anger and then one day suddenly explode
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Originally Posted by Edgar
Spamtar - a strange combination of boorish drunkeness and erudite discussions, or what I call "an Irish academic"
I didn't realize there were exploding people. Were they overinflated?
yes. Veins popping or do mean like Violet from Charlie and the Chocolate Factory?
On a serious note all the EXTJs I know like to yell and/or chew people out and the ESFJs I know are very expressive w/ their annoyances/anger. Nothing bad, just my observations. I have no idea how ENFJs fall into that spectrum... they seem more underhandedly cutting and critical (snarky) than directly explosive unless they've just HAD it.
On a serious note all the EXTJs I know like to yell and/or chew people out and the ESFJs I know are very expressive w/ their annoyances/anger. Nothing bad, just my observations. I have no idea how ENFJ fall into that spectrum... they seem more underhandedly cutting, critical (snarky) than directly explosive unless they've just HAD it.
"In order for the light to shine so brightly, the darkness must be present." -Francis Bacon
"No matter how dark the moment, love and hope are always possible." -George Chakiris
I used to be an incredibly angry person .. I would internalise it all and rationalise it so it became my fault (thus keeping the cycle going). Having a fist fight with someone would not bother me at all, the physical pain would be nothing compared to the internal pain ..
These days .. It is not worth it. It is better to walk away with some dignity. We can choose how we behave.
That is why i like smiling at people who try to push my buttons and provoke me .. They get more pissed off if you have a shit eating grin on your face as opposed to exploding at them.
Live and let live, i say.
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― Georgia O'Keeffe
I'm a highly angry individual. But I never take it out on other people...unless I'm mad..then I have something to tap into. Which can be a bad thing..
But I don't know if this goes back to being an ENFP..it could be?
Is it that by its indefiniteness it shadows forth the heartless voids and immensities of the universe, and thus stabs us from behind with the thought of annihilation, when beholding the white depths of the milky way?