What are your WORST qualities?

[Magic Poriferan]

No confidence.
Excessively cautious.
Easily overwhelmed.
Pessimistic.
Uncontrollable imagination.
Resentful.
Mildly paranoid.
Stuck in the past and future.
Expressionally repressed.
Vain.

 

[OrangeAppled]

Withdrawn
Passive
Passive aggressive
Self-defeating
Cynical
Lazy
Escapist
Aloof
Negative
Extremely disorganized

Most of these, except I am not extremely disorganized, just moderately messy and habitually late, and I generally manage my time poorly.

I'm the brand of cynical that is actually a dashed idealism.

-Socially awkward/timid
-Feel sympathetic but don't take action (related to ^)

These too. The last one especially. I think about people much more than I ever do for them.

-SHY
-procrastinator
-lazy
-self-absorbed
-pretty low self-confidence
-way too hard on myself

Yep, these also.

And I'll add these:

moody and high-strung
overly imaginative (detached from reality)
don't act on ideas
slightly paranoid
melancholy
easily embarrassed, which leads to inhibition/withdrawing
too guarded
over-analytical
too serious at times
too silly so that I seem nonsensical

 

[Queen Kat]

- When someone else is more succesful than me, I get jealous.
- I'm an attention whore.
- I'm probably the only person in the world who has no idea how to use a GameBoy.
- I hate sports.
- I'm too honest, but still not honest enough.
- I'm not living my life the way I want yet.
- I hate it when people want to help or take care of me and I hate helpful people.
- I'm not interested in shoes. At all.
- I hate healthy food.
- I talk faster than I think and that makes me talk brainless bullshit from time to time.
- I type slower than I think, which makes me frequently forget what I'm writing about.
- I'm easily bored.
- I secretly like the music of The Killers and Lady GaGa. And Mika.
- I don't get fashion victims and people who fall in love with a new person every week.
- I like writing, but I hate reading.
- I like drawing and painting, but I hate art.
- Most of the time I pretend to be shy and that bores me.
- I hold people to high standards.
- I have ADD.
- I love myself and I even adore my bad qualities.

 

[cascadeco]

-Self-critical
-Judgmental/scornful/arrogant
-Prone to isolation and self-absorption
-Insecurity and self-consciousness/anxiety
-Cynical at times
-Easily irritable
-Fluctuating emotions frustrate me at times
-Very wavering/uncertain in terms of overall life direction. Always have been.
-Slightly paranoid at times

 

[Orangey]

-Withdrawn
-Melancholy
-Lazy
-Disorganized
-Constantly running behind, trying to catch up.
-Not personable.
-Self-critical
-Negative attitude towards everything.
-Self-conscious/anxious.
-Not reliable.
-Self-indugent.
-Indolent.

 

[Tamske]

Worst qualities:

- I can have short-lived passions for anything. When at the peak of my interest, I don't want to talk about anything else, annoying other people. When this interest fades, I end up with unfinished projects. (MBTI is probably one of those short-lived interests. Signs it's already on it's decline: I'm not continuing the halloween comic,... Probably I will fade from this forum altogether after a while.)
- I'm easily distracted and forgetful.
- I'll offer advice when comfort is needed.
- When you first meet me, you'll probably like me. But I'm very bad at following through with friendships. I'll probably not remember your name the second time I meet you. (If you pass that hurdle, though, I will be a very true friend.)

 

[Saslou]

Oh one more ..

Questioning myself over the decisions i have made/about to make .. Like the really important ones.

 

[Doppleganger]

I can be lethargic most of the time.

 

[Lacey]

Geez, I need to stop looking at this thread. I look at everyone else's posts, and think, "Oh, yeah, I could have added that to my list too...and that...and that..."

 

[Tamske]

lol!
One more for me: I have too much imagination.
I'll add that to my best qualities too! It's both a gift and a curse.

 

[disregard]

I've been told and/or have come to the conclusion that I'm...

-bossy
-blunt
-harsh
-domineering
-lacking in respect for the boundaries of others
-defensive
-inferior in my ability to cope with some things
-impulsive
-cowardly

 

[Grungemouse]

Hmm.

Shyness - Gets in the way of my social endeavours
Pride- I've ruined relationships by being too proud to admit defeat
Hypersensitity to potential signs of rejection from my partner
Laziness - I never get anything done
Low need of affiliation - I have no drive to socialize

 

[sLiPpY]

Worst? Can't think of any.

 

[Poki]

Procrastinator
+ Forgetful
---------------
Not good

 

[chickpea]

irresponsible, selfish, lazy, unmotivated, self-conscious, shy sometimes

 

[Totenkindly]

irresponsible, selfish, lazy, unmotivated, self-conscious, shy sometimes

"Dad? Is that you?"

 

[BlueGray]

Indecisive: causes lots and lots of problems (procrastination as example)
Don't blunt my opinions: I make a lot of people angry without any real intent to (well maybe sometimes)
Ignore details
Find too much fun in arguing points to death: also angers people

 

[Glycerine]

Blunt-too direct on certain things
Intense-can't relax on certain things
highly critical and somewhat manipulative when stressed
talk too much
emotional sensitivity (both good and bad)
I think I can come off very arrogant, cold, and business-like sometimes (but I am really not)
Deluded self-perception (people usually perceive me differently than I perceive myself)
inattentiveness to details

 

[MonkeyGrass]

My flip flopiness. Duality, if you will. I can so easily see the merit in contrasting activities/goals/theories, that I can find myself in a totally opposite mindset (than 15min before) and at odds with my long-term goals, without having a clue how I made the leap. I hate that. My creativity and desire for orderly simplicity are constantly at odds.

I can often be SO on the same wavelength with a person (resounding with their emotional energy) that I make promises and plans I'd never make otherwise. When I go back to being simply me, their emotions aside, I often step back and say, "WTF?!", and have to call and cancel or backpeddle. Ugh.

Also, I'm too hard on those I love. And too easy on them.

I'm a freaking enigma. And, no, I don't find it mysterious or remotely "INFJ sexy". It's annoying as HELL. :steam:

 

[Rebe]

if you let me know your emotional weaknesses, I may manipulate you, if I need to, though i hold pretty strong morals .

i can be very cold and judgmental because i am insecure and have high standards, despite that i am usually compassionate.

i don't talk when i am angry, i use the 'silent' treatment, and if you let me know that it works, i will do it again and again when you have insulted me.

i slept with someone else's boyfriend and i still don't feel bad about it.