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What are your WORST qualities?

Athenian200

Protocol Droid
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4w5
I exist.

Existing in this reality is what causes me to be flawed in all the other ways, thus I've concluded that my worst flaw is existence. After all, if I didn't exist, I couldn't be flawed.

I'm not talking so much about birth or death... but the simple fact of existing in this reality as anything, even as atoms or molecules, is itself a flaw, due to the peculiar nature of this reality that permits extreme imbalance between opposing forces to manifest in major ways for extended periods of time.
 

LostInNerSpace

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INTP
Being overly nice. Giving people too many chances for redemption when they clear don't want it, possibly even don't deserve it.
 

Matthew_Z

That chalkboard guy
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xxxx
Perhaps a late note, but I find the label "worst" to be a limiting way to look at myself. By assigning some sort of external judgment, I've disallowed myself from understanding the true nature of the system and replaced it by artificial classification. (or, at least, predisposed myself to a false interpretation.) While the approached I've described is the nature of perception itself, it is the one to be used minimally in pursuit of true understanding.
 

Lacey

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Jan 3, 2009
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392
MBTI Type
INFP
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6w5
Instinctual Variant
sp/sx
-SHY
-procrastinator
-lazy
-self-absorbed
-pretty low self-confidence
-way too hard on myself
 

FDG

pathwise dependent
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ENTJ
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7w8
-Stare of death (My head angles down when looking at people, so I came up with a name for it. People say it looks like I want to kill them, which obviously isn't true, but I certainly don't mean to scare anyone.).

Ahaha, yeah, I have the same problem lol.

Anyway, me:

- I can be brash when interrupted while I'm doing something
- My sense of humor can be offensive/embarassing for the person on the receiving end
- I am really extroverted...I liked loud noises, some chaos in my surrondings, etc. that can disturb people
- I'm high-strung, I need to do stuff otherwise I become nervous
 

INA

now! in shell form
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intp
"Worst" is a value judgment that I don't agree with for the list below, but this is what I get bashed for, so from others' view:

neurotic
suspicious
empathy often doesn't translate to sympathy, but rather antipathy
little patience
procrastination-prone
self-absorbed
hypercritical
forget nothing - even if it seems I have
excessively independent
 

Saslou

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Being honest
Trusting people
Caring
Being sensitive
Impatience
Stubbornness
Believing that people are genuinely good


Oh, these are also my good traits .. Interesting
 

DiscoBiscuit

Meat Tornado
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Being honest
Trusting people
Caring
Being sensitive
Impatience
Stubbornness
Believing that people are genuinely good

All of this.

Used to be:
- couldn't take criticism
- naive
- bitter
- childish
- huge blindspot
- inarticulate
- socially awkward
- lustful
 

INA

now! in shell form
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intp
Really? Is this why you continue to harass me and spy on me. I just proved you're still spying on me. When you asked about psychotherapy experiences. What I wanted to say is don't tell your therapist anything because you never know when the government will go fishing for something to use against you and bend and twist out of shape.
:wtf:

Yes, that must be it.
 

LostInNerSpace

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INTP
Oh you quoted me, nice morons! Now everyone will forever see what dicks you are.
 

tinkerbell

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Aug 31, 2008
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ENTP
Impatience
Intensity
Too strong a work ethic
Expecting others to commit in the same way I do
AWFUL house keeper
Awful at managing personal budget/lack of care
Submissive and dominant (and flipping between the two)
Frenetic
short tempered

Some of these are good qualities which just suffer from beign extrem
 

ceecee

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INTJ
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8w9
Oh hey look. ^^ Crazy's back.
 
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