What are your WORST qualities?

[Spamtar]

What sense of humor?

Exactly!

 

[Biaxident]

Exactly!

*DING DING DING*

We have a winner!!!

 

[ayoitsStepho]

^No no Stepho your "easy to lead astray" side is one of my favorite virtues.

But my mom says its the worst quality to have

 

[kelric]

My poor sense of humor tells me to say "I'm too humble" (not true) . So I'll start the list with:

-- Often tries too hard to be funny... and isn't
-- Poor social skills / Difficulty bonding with others
-- Very self-conscious
-- Generally passive/indecisive in an "I'll wait and see" way run amok
-- Lack of follow-through and self-motivation
-- Poor self-expression
-- Believe I'm (almost) always right
-- Unwillingness to embrace things that I'm not naturally skilled at
-- Can be dismissive and grumpy when interrupted
-- Tendency to complain, instead of take a risk, when things aren't to my liking
-- Wasted a good portion of my life already

I'm tempted to add "incredibly depressing" after writing all of that . Ouch. I do have a few good qualities - really .

 

[Antimony]

- I am indecisive
- I am arrogant
- I cause chaos....chaos everywhere
- I use logic to rationalize actions/wants/feelings. Especially the feelings. And actions as well.
- I do not pay people mind, and can be rather rude if interrupted while thinking or talking to someone
- I am non-committal
- I am vengeful
- I am forgetful
- I am always right and I am going to give you my input/comment/opinion on everything
- MC Hammer couldn't touch my ego

 

[Max]

Ooh, this is fun!
Well, here are the things that lead to my downfall:

-Spaz too much.
-Resistant to change/trying new things.
-Get over-emotional/withdrawn when in panic mode.
-May have a twisted view of what others might think of me.
-Don't know how to talk to women I'm interested in!
-Stare of death (My head angles down when looking at people, so I came up with a name for it. People say it looks like I want to kill them, which obviously isn't true, but I certainly don't mean to scare anyone.).
-Can get over-attached to the wrong people, and it's difficult to accept that. It's tough to develop very close connections. I'm much more of the "many acquaintances" kind of guy than the "few close friends" guy.

 

[Spamtar]

But my mom says its the worst quality to have

Mom's always say that.

Then again most mom's don't know the philosophy of jujitsu! Because of this all you gotta do is imagine a little Spamtar on your shoulder tellng you that you rock! and deserve the best more than you know.

 

[Max]

Not very blunt

Oh right, that reminds me of another one for myself: Too blunt!

Apparently this means that I'm boring and unpleasant, especially in the case of women I show interest in.

 

[Spamtar]

and who says we have to be perfect...imperfection builds character.

 

[Biaxident]

and who says we have to be perfect... Working on imperfections builds character.

Fixed.

 

[PoprocksAndCoke]

and who says we have to be perfect...imperfection builds character.

This, my spamtar, is what I tell my friend every day, and all I get is a facepalm in return.

 

[Max]

Well, it's going very slow... Oh, there's another one- Too impatient! Hah, I'm on fire today with criticizing myself!

 

[PoprocksAndCoke]

Wow, what a happy thread!

-I have lied(see above statement)
-I deflect
-I tend to take responsibility for too much on the inside and too little on the outside
-I don't know how to respond to some emotions
-I can be extremely shy
-I usually don't value the opinions of people who refuse to see reason
-I can't hold grudges
-I can sometimes unintentionally initiate fights
-I can be defensive
-I'm afraid of being thought of as a bad person
-I can be too clingy or too distant

 

[BlueScreen]

- idealistic
- perfectionist
- often unmotivated
- sometimes ignore the small or mundane things even when they really matter
- almost impossible to get in a romantic relationship with
- don't do things in moderation
- get bored of socialising if it is routine
- pursue none of my interests in an interactive environment (except sport maybe)
- forget to do things I've been asked to do
- do things at the last minute
- never make the most of my abilities
- rely too much on perception (will sometimes completely dismiss logic because it disagrees with what I know is reality)
- dislike being told what to do in the personal domain (I've got really good advice sometimes and been annoyed someone told me to change how I feel)
- put knowing and understanding before caring sometimes

I'm sure there is tonnes more...

 

[ayoitsStepho]

Mom's always say that.

Then again most mom's don't know the philosophy of jujitsu! Because of this all you gotta do is imagine a little Spamtar on your shoulder tellng you that you rock! and deserve the best more than you know.

So, all I need is a little kitty on my shoulder?

 

[PoprocksAndCoke]

- idealistic
- perfectionist

This is bad? ^^

 

[Max]

This is bad? ^^

Idealistic? Absolutely. Instead, join the pessimist league!

Or, just be realistic. That totally works too.

 

[Atomic Fiend]

-I can be ridiculously lazy at times
-I can be quite insecure at times
-Have problems asking for help
-Somewhat apathetic toward... anything.
-Allow problems to go from bad to worse before actually doing anything about them
-Prone to getting lost in fantasy and daydreams
-Odd attitude toward getting things done, if I decide to do it, it will be done to perfection, however it ,whatever it is, will go to hell before that.
-Somewhat pessimistic

 

[PoprocksAndCoke]

Idealistic? Absolutely. Instead, join the pessimist league!

Or, just be realistic. That totally works too.

Na, perfectionist

 

[Max]

I normally never had thought of myself as a perfectionist, but as reflected by those around me, it turns out I am indeed one.