Shyness - Gets in the way of my social endeavours Pride- I've ruined relationships by being too proud to admit defeat Hypersensitity to potential signs of rejection from my partner Laziness - I never get anything done Low need of affiliation - I have no drive to socialize
irresponsible, selfish, lazy, unmotivated, self-conscious, shy sometimes
"Dad? Is that you?"
"Hey Capa -- We're only stardust." ~ "Sunshine"
“Pleasure to me is wonder—the unexplored, the unexpected, the thing that is hidden and the changeless thing that lurks behind superficial mutability. To trace the remote in the immediate; the eternal in the ephemeral; the past in the present; the infinite in the finite; these are to me the springs of delight and beauty.” ~ H.P. Lovecraft
Indecisive: causes lots and lots of problems (procrastination as example)
Don't blunt my opinions: I make a lot of people angry without any real intent to (well maybe sometimes)
Find too much fun in arguing points to death: also angers people
Blunt-too direct on certain things
Intense-can't relax on certain things
highly critical and somewhat manipulative when stressed
talk too much
emotional sensitivity (both good and bad)
I think I can come off very arrogant, cold, and business-like sometimes (but I am really not)
Deluded self-perception (people usually perceive me differently than I perceive myself)
inattentiveness to details
My flip flopiness. Duality, if you will. I can so easily see the merit in contrasting activities/goals/theories, that I can find myself in a totally opposite mindset (than 15min before) and at odds with my long-term goals, without having a clue how I made the leap. I hate that. My creativity and desire for orderly simplicity are constantly at odds.
I can often be SO on the same wavelength with a person (resounding with their emotional energy) that I make promises and plans I'd never make otherwise. When I go back to being simply me, their emotions aside, I often step back and say, "WTF?!", and have to call and cancel or backpeddle. Ugh.
Also, I'm too hard on those I love. And too easy on them.
I'm a freaking enigma. And, no, I don't find it mysterious or remotely "INFJ sexy". It's annoying as HELL. :steam: