Withdraw from others when frustrated. Stop talking although they appear angry. Wash hands of decision rather than try to influence it. Don't like to rush into action without understanding the background and the details of a project.
Positive intent: "Get it right"
There can’t be any large-scale revolution until there’s a personal revolution, on an individual level. It’s got to happen inside first.
This stuff worries me. I heard it on the radio a few weeks back, and my first thought was that it might be one of the most unproductive things I've ever heard proposed as helpful. I'll still join in for play time , but I know a few people will take it seriously, and that is a little scary. A person who follows a list of arbitrary things that someone decides are deadly sins is as difficult to deal with as any of the ones on the list. And some are normal traits and not a sign of any problem, just conflict between the writer's personality and the trait they are describing. Maybe it works for those who need the world to change for them, but accepting diversity, adapting, letting people be who they are without feeling guilt for it, come a lot higher on my list.
Freude, schöner Götterfunken Tochter aus Elysium, Wir betreten feuertrunken, Himmlische, dein Heiligtum! Deine Zauber binden wieder Was die Mode streng geteilt; Alle Menschen werden Brüder, Wo dein sanfter Flügel weilt.
Victor was unavailable for comment so he sent his thoughts on this topic through me.
He wanted you all to know that you're delusional children with zero emotional depth and big holes where your souls oughtta be...
Where's your scientific proof that Sherman Tanks exist???????? CLEARLY THIS SYSTEM IS USELESS
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You're trolling Victor. Cut it out.
Relationships have normal ebbs and flows. They do not automatically get better and better when the participants learn more and more about each other. Instead, the participants have to work through the tensions of the relationship (the dialectic) while they learn and group themselves and a parties in a relationships. At times the relationships is very open and sharing. Other time, one or both parties to the relationship need their space, or have other concerns, and the relationship is less open. The theory posits that these cycles occur throughout the life of the relationship as the persons try to balance their needs for privacy and open relationship. Interpersonal Communication Theories and Concepts Social Penetration Theory 1 Social Penetration Theory 2 Social Penetration Theory 3
Ok, I better speak up on my difficulties. Actually It was a useful exercise to study how these fit for me.
Which of these, if any, do you relate to the most? : Sherman Tanks
Pushy, abrupt, and even hostile. Attack until others move out of the way or accept their view of the world. Aggravated by too much discussion or friendly chat.
Positive intent: "Get it done"
I relate to this somewhat. Bad thing, I'd say.
Hide in crowds. Use jokes and sarcasm to sidetrack, humiliate, and embarrass people. May roll eyes to distract you. Can become tanks if exposed. Friendly snipers use humor to get attention from the group.
Positive intent: "Get it done" and "Get appreciated"
I kind of resent this style. I try to keep it to minimum, but I do it sometimes. Shame on me. It's not a proud way to do things.
Extremely confident in their abilities. Very accurate and thorough. Tend to ignore other opinions. Quick to criticize and pick at others. Don't like to be contradicted.
Positive intent: "Get it done"
Sadly, I somewhat identify at this. I try to keep it in balance. I guess I've learned more about what I don't know in the last few years, but I still often feel I'm right. Perhaps this is my main difficulty from the items in this list.
Anyways, no person is a perfect fit with any of those. I'm not, you're not, nobody else is either. Given the hostile tone of the descriptions, I'm not sure if pigeonholing or "problem typology" or anything of the sort is doing much good. I'm nearest to some problems in the list, and others are too, but it doesn't mean I am one of those descriptions, just like no-one else isn't.
This list has the same problems as typology in general.