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  • Passive-Aggressive Peacemaking

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  • Abrasive Honesty

    9 20.45%
  • I'm a fucking nitwit, so this poll is too vague for me/ I don't like either one

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    Default Poll: Passive-Aggressive Peacemaking or Abrasive Honesty?

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    Passive - aggressive peacemaking. Anything passive aggressive absolutely rubs me the wrong way. I prefer honest in any fashion much more.
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    Passive-Aggressive peacemaking only leaves the problem fester on. Things left unresolved irritate me. With honesty, there's the possibility to get things out in the open and try to resolve them.

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    Passive aggression is my #1 pet peeve in people, I absolutely can't stand it.

    If someone's passive aggressive towards me, I generally pretend like I don't notice so it pisses them off enough that they finally let me know exactly what's bothering them. I don't have the time or patience to play bullshit mind games with people. Just tell me what I'm doing that annoys you.

    Abrasive honesty can be annoying if someone vocalizes everything that annoys them, but at least you know how they feel and aren't getting constant mixed signals that you need to decipher.
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    Oops, I guess I should have voted "I'm a nitwit" because I totally thought we were voting for what we liked
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    Quote Originally Posted by poppy View Post
    Oops, I guess I should have voted "I'm a nitwit" because I totally thought we were voting for what we liked
    No, that wouldn't make you a nitwit---just a sensotard.

    Nitwits refuse to answer simple questions because they think everything is one big analytical jerk-off session.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wonkavision View Post
    No, that wouldn't make you a nitwit---just a sensotard.

    Nitwits refuse to answer simple questions because they think everything is one big analytical jerk-off session.
    LOL

    *guilty*
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    P(posting on TypoC) = 0.2
    P(having big assignment due | posting on TypoC) = 0.7

    P(posting on TypoC | having big assignment due) = .......


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    Quote Originally Posted by Wonkavision View Post
    No, that wouldn't make you a nitwit---just a sensotard.

    Nitwits refuse to answer simple questions because they think everything is one big analytical jerk-off session.

    Yep, I have a pretty bad case of sensotard.

    Oh well. Abrasive honesty can be annoying, if the person is talking and I don't really want to listen to them gripe in the first place, in which case I'd prefer that they just quiet down and go do something passive aggressive.

    Answer justified!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cenomite View Post
    LOL

    *guilty*
    Well, at least you admit it.

    The other bastards claim they are just trying to understand.

    What a crock of shit that is most of the time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by poppy View Post

    Yep, I have a pretty bad case of sensotard.

    Oh well. Abrasive honesty can be annoying, if the person is talking and I don't really want to listen to them gripe in the first place, in which case I'd prefer that they just quiet down and go do something passive aggressive.

    Answer justified!
    Uh-oh.....

    You're approaching dangerous levels of nitwititude. LOL.

    But, fair enough---it sounds like a reasonable answer.

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