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View Poll Results: Which is more irritating to you: Passive-Aggressive Peacemaking or Abrasive Honesty?

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  • Passive-Aggressive Peacemaking

    26 59.09%
  • Abrasive Honesty

    9 20.45%
  • I'm a fucking nitwit, so this poll is too vague for me/ I don't like either one

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    whoops...wait...I picked that I PREFER abrasive honesty...and the poll is for which irritates me more

    oops! I'm a multi-tasking P who isn't paying a bit of attention

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wonkavision View Post
    Jeffster, you are [voluntary edit].

    If you actually read the private message I sent you, and you still don't get it, [voluntary edit]
    Offensive and immature. If you're trying to encourage thread participation, this is a poor way to do it.

    Quote Originally Posted by Wonkavision View Post
    Good one.

    You're no longer worth responding to, but by all means, carry on.
    The truth hurts.
    Last edited by iwakar; 08-09-2009 at 07:26 PM. Reason: Quote edited to remove insults [voluntary edit]
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    Oh no you di'int
    The probability that I was procrastinating when I was typing this post:

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    P(posting on TypoC | having big assignment due) = .......


    Eh, I'll finish it later.

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    Look, if its any consolation to the people who don't like my polls and questionaires---I kind of doubt that I will be creating any more.

    Its just too fucking irritating.


    If people want to believe that they "won", by "making" me stop---they can go ahead and knock themselves out.

    I just don't see the point anymore.

    It's too much of a hassle with all the trolls running around.

    It's giving me a headache.


    Peace out, you trollin motherfuckers.
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    Wonka, I haven't interacted with you at all on the forum but you come across as p(r)etty sensitive and attention whorish.

    Oh, and put me down for abrasive honesty. I'll throw a passive-aggressive smiley face on the end of this to confuse and confound!
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    Quote Originally Posted by proteanmix View Post
    Wonka, I haven't interacted with you at all on the forum but you come across as p(r)etty sensitive and attention whorish.

    Oh, and put me down for abrasive honesty. I'll throw a passive-aggressive smiley face on the end of this to confuse and confound!
    Yeah, but if you tell us it's straddling some strange boundary between abrasive honesty and passive-aggressive.

    And that wasn't an available option. You must be a troll.

    Edit: Fine, fine, fine. I chose the third poll option.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wonkavision View Post
    Why the hostility?

    Because I find your Passive-Aggressive Peacemaking attempts extremely irritating.

    If you truly want to be friendly, try relating to me as an equal, rather than as a pet project.


    How about if I drop the hostility and you drop the psychoanalysis?
    Quote Originally Posted by Wonkavision View Post
    Jeffster, you are the epitome of the Passive-Aggressive Peacemaker.

    If you actually read the private message I sent you, and you still don't get it, then you are the dullest fucking clod who ever lived---and I pity you to the point of tears.
    You gotta hand it to the guy. He's honest, and abrasive.

    5 stars!
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    Quote Originally Posted by proteanmix View Post
    Wonka, I haven't interacted with you at all on the forum but you come across as p(r)etty sensitive and attention whorish.

    Oh, and put me down for abrasive honesty. I'll throw a passive-aggressive smiley face on the end of this to confuse and confound!
    I wont hesitate to say I'm sensitive---very much so. I think that's pretty obvious.

    That's why I fire back when I'm being attacked.


    But I do not whore for attention.

    I'm just being myself.


    I probe for information without a particular agenda in mind.

    But the problem is, the more I respond to the trolls, the more I look like a troll.

    So, I'm starting to think its not worth creating threads.

    It seems to invite too much controversy, and that's not what I'm here for.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wonkavision View Post
    I wont hesitate to say I'm sensitive---very much so. I think that's pretty obvious.

    That's why I fire back when I'm being attacked.


    But I do not whore for attention.

    I'm just being myself.


    I probe for information without a particular agenda in mind.

    But the problem is, the more I respond to the trolls, the more I look like a troll.

    So, I'm starting to think its not worth creating threads.

    It seems to invite too much controversy, and that's not what I'm here for.

    I don't think you should stop, because then you're just letting passive-aggressive people get to you.

    You can look at it this way: the point of your poll was to learn who to avoid because they prefer to be passive aggressive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wonkavision View Post
    I wont hesitate to say I'm sensitive---very much so. I think that's pretty obvious.

    That's why I fire back when I'm being attacked.


    But I do not whore for attention.

    I'm just being myself.


    I probe for information without a particular agenda in mind.

    But the problem is, the more I respond to the trolls, the more I look like a troll.

    So, I'm starting to think its not worth creating threads.

    It seems to invite too much controversy, and that's not what I'm here for.
    But no one attacked you initially. People asked for clarification of your OP and it seems to me like you were the first person to take it there.

    It seems to me that you misinterpreted iwakar's and lostinnerspace's posts and then you got offended. This is what I'm saying when you seem unreasonably sensitive and then extend claws when there was no basic understanding.
    Relationships have normal ebbs and flows. They do not automatically get better and better when the participants learn more and more about each other. Instead, the participants have to work through the tensions of the relationship (the dialectic) while they learn and group themselves and a parties in a relationships. At times the relationships is very open and sharing. Other time, one or both parties to the relationship need their space, or have other concerns, and the relationship is less open. The theory posits that these cycles occur throughout the life of the relationship as the persons try to balance their needs for privacy and open relationship.
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