Oh God Not You!

[ThatGirl]

So I have been reading "A Brief History of Time" lately. And looking into physics as it pertains to interpersonal communications.

Here is my Question:

Have you ever come across a "Black Hole"?

The person who absorbs all the energy in their surrounding environments.

How would you describe a black hole personality?

What type do you think the black hole person would be?





*I have multiple theories on this which I may disclose after observing a few responses.

 

[Synarch]

What type do you think the black hole person would be?

*I have multiple theories on this which I may disclose after observing a few responses.

ENFP / ENTP

 

[JocktheMotie]

I might be one of those, to be honest. If it's someone I don't know and they're making idle conversation, I tend to miss cues and openings and just kind of be blunt, driving the conversation into an absolute brick wall.

However, as for a general life-of-the-party sucking presence, I don't have one of those. I would assume it would be sad and outspokenly depressed people that put their emo stamp on everything, making sure there's as much awkward silence as possible.

 

[Moiety]

ENFP / ENTP

lol, I think I agree.

 

[heart]

What type do you think the black hole person would be?

It'd be different based on the person they were dealing with. Different people find different people draining, irritating etc.

 

[LostInNerSpace]

I can see some people being like that when they feel threatened. I can't imagine why anyone would feel threatened here. This place comes across all warm and fuzzy, something like a petting zoo. Wouldn't you agree?

 

[poppy]

However, as for a general life-of-the-party sucking presence, I don't have one of those. I would assume it would be sad and outspokenly depressed people that put their emo stamp on everything, making sure there's as much awkward silence as possible.

I know a girl who's like this sometimes. She doesn't try to, but when she's in a bad mood it's like she's giving off death rays or sucking up any neutral or positive statements directed at her and not putting anything back out. I hadn't ever thought about it in terms of being like a black hole but that would actually describe it pretty well.

I can see some people being like that when they feel threatened. I can't imagine why anyone would feel threatened here. This place comes across all warm and fuzzy, something like a petting zoo. Wouldn't you agree?

Haha this place is definitely a zoo of some kind!

 

[Halla74]

So I have been reading "A Brief History of Time" lately. And looking into physics as it pertains to interpersonal communications.

Here is my Question:

Have you ever come across a "Black Hole"?

The person who absorbs all the energy in their surrounding environments.

How would you describe a black hole personality?

What type do you think the black hole person would be?

*I have multiple theories on this which I may disclose after observing a few responses.

I think an unhealthy (aka "mad as fooking looney-tunes") ESTJ is capable of absorbing all energy in their midst and having nothing (good) come of it.

 

[substitute]

I'm not sure whether you mean someone who absorbs it in a bad way, as in, sucks it up and doesn't give any good stuff back out - a little stormcloud, that is, that brings everyone down - or someone who feeds off the energy and converts it to more energy and gives it back out again.

The phrase 'black hole' led me to believe the former...? Cos if so, there's nothing quite as depressing or party-pooping in my experience, as an ISFJ in a bad mood!

You couldn't really say ExxP's do this, realistically, cos really the last thing you can accuse us of is not giving energy out. Jesus, the amount we get accused of overwhelming people with giving too much of it out...!

 

[Lady_X]

lol, I think I agree.

totally not.

 

[ThatGirl]

bump because I am drunk

 

[WickedQueen]

Have you ever come across a "Black Hole"? The person who absorbs all the energy in their surrounding environments.

How would you describe a black hole personality?

What type do you think the black hole person would be?

Are you talking about me?

 

[Scott N Denver]

I've had LOTS of bad experiences with INTJ's. I'll definitely vote them for "emotional black holes" and "warmth black holes"

 

[poppy]

I've had LOTS of bad experiences with INTJ's. I'll definitely vote them for "emotional black holes" and "warmth black holes"

 

[yenom]

Black Hole personality: being an enigma, have a strong presense even though silent, can read what people think without saying anything, have an aura of influence and power that is silent and destructive. You mean kind of like this

 

[Halla74]

bump because I am drunk

+5 bcuz I am drunker than yous.



I win!

 

[JocktheMotie]

I've had LOTS of bad experiences with INTJ's. I'll definitely vote them for "emotional black holes" and "warmth black holes"

To be honest, INTxs go far too unnoticed to really be considered black hole presences. The chances are, you won't even know they're there.

 

[Scott N Denver]

To be honest, INTxs go far too unnoticed to really be considered black hole presences. The chances are, you won't even know they're there.

Amongst the general population maybe. But I'm an engineer at a place where lots of people have physics backgrounds. INTJ's are like 50-75% of THAT population.

Poppy, there are some balanced INTJ's, I think I've met like 3. The problem is all the like 50-100 other ones that I've met...Honestly though, I think physics attracts a certain kind of person [cerebral comes to mind first, non-social], and INTJ's I've met elsewhere have been MUCH better.

I've had enough "the thoughts in my head are more important than listening to you" and other experiences with INTJ's and others. "Why do you care about others??? They are just stupid unimportant minions who babble about their feelings and other stupid things"

 

[JAVO]

looking into physics as it pertains to interpersonal communications.

:horor:

 

[Edgar]

lol, I think I agree.