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    Quote Originally Posted by hommefatal View Post
    personal criticism, loneliness, obligations
    You gotta respect yourself before respecting or admiring or loving others. If you have self-respect personal criticism won't phase you unless it is warranted, in which case, it doesn't hurt you either because you see the logic behind it. The point of closeness is definitely not loneliness. If if you feel lonely when you are with someone, it's probably because you are feeling judged which goes back to personal criticism and self-respect. Same with obligations or expectations. If your conscience is clear you don't have to care about what others expect of you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sky is BLUE! View Post
    Who wouldn't?



    I can relate to that.

    Quote Originally Posted by Sytpg View Post
    You gotta respect yourself before respecting or admiring or loving others. If you have self-respect personal criticism won't phase you unless it is warranted, in which case, it doesn't hurt you either because you see the logic behind it. The point of closeness is definitely not loneliness. If if you feel lonely when you are with someone, it's probably because you are feeling judged which goes back to personal criticism and self-respect. Same with obligations or expectations. If your conscience is clear you don't have to care about what others expect of you.
    It is more that I act like a lunatic and extremely closed-minded racist sexist nazis tell me I am scum. If there's then someone who says something similar I feel bad.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hommefatal View Post
    I fear not to be accepted.
    Okay, but let me ask you - what's so great about being accepted?

    Quote Originally Posted by Sky is BLUE! View Post
    Who wouldn't?
    I'm just probing, not everyone goes crazy from those things.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheChosenOne View Post
    Okay, but let me ask you - what's so great about being accepted?
    It's just that people are scared of me because I'm uberhonest. I always tell people what my goal is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hommefatal View Post
    It is more that I act like a lunatic and extremely closed-minded racist sexist nazis tell me I am scum. If there's then someone who says something similar I feel bad.
    People don't like "lunatics" so you can't be surprised. How about trying to heal your "lunatic" status instead?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sytpg View Post
    People don't like "lunatics" so you can't be surprised. How about trying to heal your "lunatic" status instead?
    not so good, normal behaviour is boring.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hommefatal View Post
    It's just that people are scared of me because I'm uberhonest. I always tell people what my goal is.
    Okay. Imo, that's a good characteristic to have, just as long as you don't become indiscreet/indecent.

    Quote Originally Posted by hommefatal View Post
    not so good, normal behaviour is boring.
    Ah, but do you find crazy behavior to be interesting?

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    Quote Originally Posted by hommefatal View Post
    not so good, normal behaviour is boring.
    Are you trying to say I'm boring just because I'm not a lunatic? Choose your words carefully for I might loose my temper. Yeah, like lunatics do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sytpg View Post
    Are you trying to say I'm boring just because I'm not a lunatic? Choose your words carefully for I might loose my temper. Yeah, like lunatics do.
    ooooh...watch out kids!
    There can’t be any large-scale revolution until there’s a personal revolution, on an individual level. It’s got to happen inside first.
    -Jim Morrison

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheChosenOne View Post
    Okay. Imo, that's a good characteristic to have, just as long as you don't become indiscreet/indecent.
    People don't like it.
    Ah, but do you find crazy behavior to be interesting?
    Yeah, my brain needs such exercise. Normal behaviour is not exercising.
    Quote Originally Posted by Sytpg View Post
    Are you trying to say I'm boring just because I'm not a lunatic? Choose your words carefully for I might loose my temper. Yeah, like lunatics do.
    No. I just want to say lunatic behaviour is more of a challenge and thus more interesting.

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