I as a person I am always pretty much "myself". I don't have those things that people call change of moods.
So I am wondering if people want to talk about this.
To me it is interesting to look at this in other people.
This is also one of the main reasons why I don't place too much weight on words of other people. Since they match their mood.
If they are in a good mode they say nice things to me and if they are in a bad one they are not so nice. But the thing is that nothing has really changed about me. The only thing that has really changed is mood of the other person.
This is interesting even from the perspective of a third person.
Moody person : happy , friendly/accepting , talkative ...........
Me: reserved , cold and analytical
Moody person : unhappy , stressed , not so accepting , angry .............
Me: reserved , cold , analytical and a little bit more distand since I need time too think things through.
This is also main reason why I am high self monitoring and calculating person . Since I need to match the moods of other people..
Here is one example.
If someone is yelling at you it is good to turn somewhat hostile. If you don't the other person will be even more ofended. This way I at least allow other person to vent.
Also I have noticed that in the mood/picture thread Fs are more numerous that Ts.
What do you think is the biggest engine of mood swings in you?
How does it feel to have one of those swings?
Would you change this trait if you could or at least weaken it?