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Into which eye do you look, then?

PuddleRiver

It's always something...
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I've wondered about this before :cheese: Didn't know anybody else did. I alternate between both, but mostly look at their right eye until that gets a bit uncomfortable and then I switch back and forth if I can't look at them straight on. Which I can't.
 

Eldanen

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I usually look straight at both eyes, or between their eyes. Sometimes I do it a bit too much.
 

Valiant

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Well, when you are maintaining eye contact, into which eye of the other person do you basically look; left, right, switch from one to another, or you dont even think about that?..
feel free to discuss

I look at the right eye if I can.
 

beth21

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Weird.... ok... I think I shift from left to right and back... but I'm not really comfortable with a ton of eye contact.
 

katzchen

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Their right eye usually. Maybe because I'm mostly left side dominant.
 

THEANO

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I start with right, but shift to left...I am comfortable with eye contact, and look in turn at the eyes and their mouth when they are speaking
 

soleil

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I switch.. My eyes have trouble staying still anyways, it's even worse when I'm attempting to make eye-contact.

Lol, sounds like me. I did notice I look more left. I wonder what that means? :D
 

chubber

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I have to wonder if there is something to the left eye being the love eye, but now is it now that I have to look at the right eye from my perspective that makes it their left eye, or the other way around?
 

Ashtart

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I don't make eye contact. When I'm looking at something, though, I look with my right eye.
 

Mole

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I don't make eye contact. When I'm looking at something, though, I look with my right eye.

The eyes are the windows of the soul, so we don't make eye contact in order to hide our soul.
 

Ashtart

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The eyes are the windows of the soul, so we don't make eye contact in order to hide our soul.

If you say so, then yes, that's probably why I don't make eye contact.
 

Hitoshi-San

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i mean....are they cross eyed? if they're not, then i just look straight at both of their eyes and take it all in one shot. if i'm not as close (so they wouldn't be able to tell) i tend to look more at people's lips if they're talking
 

Red Memories

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I don't pay attention to which eye I look into to be honest. XD
 
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