I am writing this due to constant frustration in assigning myself a primary Enneagram type and tritype.
Rather than answer questionaires, I am wondering if posters with some experience in the Enneagram system can explain what the main differences are between 4s and 6s. It would also be helpful to learn more about how I should use the Enneagram. For example, I often see people saying "oh I am [insert type] because I can relate to being artistic, perfectionistic, aggressive" or whatever (as well as in MBTI), but from what I understood, the Enneagram was about identifying your core fears and desires. Is this the right way to approach it or not?