I can be pretty reactive. You likely may not see or believe this but it's true. I think anyone with a combination of 6 and sx (leaning counterphobic) has this thing. This can manifest in different ways. It provides a certain passion and intensity which is central to how I experience life. It is all about the passion. Without it, life is nothing.
Reactivity can come out in positive ways or negative ways. I try to channel it towards positive use - to get things done, to confront issues, to stand up for people or things I believe in, etc. It's not always easy. Sometimes the nasty beast slips out. I can be stubborn and angry and sometimes I can even lash out.
I choose how I react though. I choose how I can channel that energy. I choose what I am going to say and do. I choose to form positive or negative habits. I'm responsible and accountable for how I behave towards others and whether or not that reactivity results in positive or negative outcomes.
Does this resonate with anyone?